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- Mabe - 11-09-2012 08:35 PM
1.) I wouldn't be feeling the love at that point, that's for sure. It would definitely break my trust, and my heart at the same time. I can't see any other way around the fact that I would break up with that person at that point. I couldn't live like that.
2.) A sneaky person that doesn't feel comfortable enough to trust me and does something like this won't stop at that to find out what they want. This person is obsessed. Obsessed is someone that won't confront you with what they want to know. They go after it like a lone-shark..taking it. If that person wants to know something then ask. If you can't ask then I think you are up to something myself. This could lead to revenge, and you not even know what it is about. Bad things just start happening to you, cause by the other person. Still acting as though everything is honky-dorey, taking pleasure in your suffering, but not letting on. I would lose trust with a person like that and not like them, let alone love them, but wonder what else that person is going to do. I would break up with them and break their heart, and not mine own.
In both circumstances the relationship is broken.
- Mabel B - 11-09-2012 08:35 PM
No, but there would be a very heated argument!
- Willow - 11-09-2012 08:35 PM
I like this question. There is a subtle hint at a double standard we put on ourselves here. How would I find out they were sending flirty messages/texts short of invading their privacy. Unless the person they were messaging had the nads to tell me about it. Therefore, I can't get mad about them invading my privacy as question 2 suggests, if I was willing to try and find their messages/texts as in scenario 1. I'd be a bit of a hypocrite if I did. It doesn't really even matter to me the depth of the relationship. If it isn't seriou, I'm not really going to care if they flirt and they certainly shouldn't care if I do. In a serious relationship, both would require a serious discussion about a restablishment of trust and boundaries.