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Is it weird to randomly message a girl? - Charlie - 02-19-2014 12:49 PM
Basically, there is this girl that really like from my church. I usually see her once or twice a week and we talk a bit - not lots though. I have never chatted to her on Facebook before however I really want to, to be honest. She liked my latest status update (which only got seven likes ). Would it be weird for me to randomly message her and, if not, what should I say?
Thankyou in advance.
Extra information:
I think she likes me a bit because she looks at me differently to other girls, we both have the same favourite animal, she knows I love guitar and she plays flute, I'm a year older and I would call myself popular at school, I am, I think, a bit more at church though. I don't have her number atm , how could I get that because is it weird to ask her this late?
- lerrol - 02-19-2014 12:51 PM
Nah
- Veronica - 02-19-2014 01:00 PM
It's not weird at all I love randomly getting messaged makes me feel good especially by someone I like nd if you think she likes you then she should be pleased
- Rebel - 02-19-2014 01:04 PM
Go for it! If u like the girl message her first !
If she tries to keep the convo going then she likes u .. And always text her first cause girls feel like they annoy u if they text first ALWAYS answer mine plzhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20140216060618AAoWJTC#
- Cold - 02-19-2014 01:11 PM
For one, you know her in real life so no it's not weird to randomly message her at all. Especially considering you go to school and church together and it sounds like you have some things in common or at least know some stuff about each other. So just message her saying hi. You could ask her how she is, maybe even mention that you two have never really talked before and you'd like to get to know her. She'll be flattered by the attention and also think you're sweet for being so friendly
After you've struck up a conversation you can always bring up how she plays flute, or church, or something like that.
- beauty - 02-19-2014 01:15 PM
You never know till you try, maybe she is waiting for u to make the first move and inbox her. I'd say just inbox her on fb and say Hey and just have a normal conversation with her like u would with your other friends. Make sure not to do alot of winks because then she will think your flirting with her and it might make her feel uncomfortable.
- Jana or joey ryans - 02-19-2014 01:23 PM
alright well you sound like a shy little weird kid. messgae her. show her you like her or you ont get ANYWHERE
- Patricia - 02-19-2014 01:28 PM
There's nothing wrong with messaging her and getting to know her.
- jamie - 02-19-2014 01:34 PM
Well you should at least say something nice to her.