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I need to do it but its hard? - Heather - 02-20-2014 09:54 PM
I live with my boyfriend and we've been together for a while now I really love him but lately he's been posting pictures of other girls on instagram calling them beautiful. He wont even put me on it. He can have instagram snapchat etc but I can't. He can work and go to college but I cant. He calls me names and everutbing is always my fault I can never do anything right. I got offered a 40 hour a week job and he wont let me take it. I need to get out of this and move on with my life but its so hard because I love him so much. He never use to be like this.
- Sam - 02-20-2014 09:59 PM
oooo no he didn't girl!!! be a strong woman and tell cut that shit out!!!!
- b - 02-20-2014 10:03 PM
this is a power struggle, and guess what it is going to get a lot worse. he trying to control you. get out now. take the job now. leave now. do not look back, he is a loser. you need others to tell you this. sounds like he is going to take full advantage, and he does not appreciate any thing about you. proof might be on valentine day too. also the instagram is a test from him to you to get you to leave. do it. leave now.
- Brittany - 02-20-2014 10:16 PM
You need to decide if you want to follow a man or follow a career, but don't forget a career won't wake up one day & tell you it doesn't love you anymore.. Gaga told me that!
I'm totally kidding by the way, dump him & move on. Never freakin' let a man tell you what to do. You crazy?!
- Dr. Stephanie - 02-20-2014 10:21 PM
You are with an abusive and controlling guy, so why do you still love him?
You can either leave or expect to spend the rest of your life like this. If you find it difficult or impossible to resolve this, consider consulting a counselor, who can guide and support you through the ordeal. ~ Dr.S.