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how do you maintain dignity after a hurtful ufair brekup? - Paris - 02-24-2014 10:00 PM
he broke up with me with a text..not giving a reason,, i was devestated and tried to reach him see hat happened and why he did this to me.. he simply ignored all my messages, calls, emails,, texts..he is on facebook pretty active like nothing has happened but im feeling horribele.. first because i dont know why he would do this to me, second because i was desperate for an answer and made myself look desperate..i want to know how to get my dignity back,,, i am trying to move on because i dont think tht i would ever want to go back to him gain even though i still have strong feelings for him.. im hurt so much ... what shoudl i do/....
- Lana - 02-24-2014 10:09 PM
He sounds like a complete coward. he expects you to freak out and message him non-stop. so don't do it. if you act like everything is fine, he'll get really confused and he wont gain any satisfaction from knowing that you still care. it'll be hard, but don't give in.
- Jason - 02-24-2014 10:16 PM
Nothing hurts more then someone completely ignoring you... It's considered emotional abuse. You feel meaningless, low and at times none existence but that's the intentions of ignoring someone. It's a very childish and cowards way to deal with a problem, I guess, it's also the easiest way.
You sound like a wonderful person, you just happened to met the wrong guy. The good news is, the asshole is out of your life. The other good news is, you have an opportunity to find someone better. I'm pretty sure, the next guy, will appreciate you more. Good luck and don't let his childish coward way get to you. As time passes, all of this will be nothing more then a mere experience to get stronger, wiser and smarter. Again, good luck!
- Bella - 02-24-2014 10:19 PM
This happened to me. I even saw him around town and he wouldn't look at me or speak to me. It was painful and took a long time to heal. They are cowards. There is really nothing you can do without looking like a stalker. He will have his karma rest assured.
- hello! - 02-24-2014 10:27 PM
Just stop contacting him. Give yourself 2 to 3 months getting as busy as you can.make sure you always have people around you.and if he ever contact you again do not respond. He showed you his real nature. He could not even see you face to face instead he texted you.and on top of it he ignored you after this. It is best for you to move on.you deserve better.next time choose wisely so you won't get hurt.we all have to go through this to know what is best for us. And trust me not contacting him again,i mean ever again will restore your dignity back.Cause he will know he should respect you from now on.it is very very hard but make sure you don't contact him.i feel bad for gou because i know you are going through.but good luck dear
- thomas t - 02-24-2014 10:32 PM
This is the cowards way out when u use someone who loves u, its the most hurtful and lowest, i know cause i have been there also. If u say anything to him, let it be, and mean it, i wish u the best. Don't waste ur time any longer than the next five minutes wondering anything about him or what u thought u had with him, cause it was nothing to him. From this day on make a promise to yourself to never be in love alone again.Then u will understand and be free to love again, with the right guy. Best to u.