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whats going on in her mind? (girls preferably)? - My Name - 02-26-2014 01:51 PM
This girl really liked me and i led her on and she told people we were talking and i told her nicely to cool it with that stuff but she still had a crush on me for a while. i continued to lead her on to try to hook up with her which was wrong. it was going to work but my friend showed her some messages and she got real upset. but we became good friends and always talked about the idea of dating and hooking up and talked on the phone 24/7. i brought up friends with benefits and she said that if there's feeling why not make it official and i said i didnt want a relationship. about a week later i wanted a relationship and asked her out but she said no all i want is ***. she really liked me but i dont know what happened. she gave me a chance for a day but then said she didnt want to. i really wanted a relationship at this point and still do. we got in an argument and stoped talking then she started texting me and i asked her on a date and she stood me up. shes been ignoring me and seems mad ever since. now this guy on twitter who i know (who is half as good looking as me) and is an asshole to girls is calling her babe and stuff and they're flirting it up and stuff. but i couldnt picture him with her so idk whats going on in her mind? what is she thinking?
- Jennifer M - 02-26-2014 01:58 PM
She probably got frustrated waiting for you. You could try to be nice for a while and see how it goes, but that doesn't usually work. Sorry bud, lost your chance =/
- Alyssa - 02-26-2014 02:00 PM
Mm, she's just really upset with your attitude. It's simple, really: she likes you for a while, and you don't feel the same. You bring up having 'friends with benefits,' which girls rarely ever like. So at that point, you've both put out suggestions, and canceled each other out. She figured she didn't have a chance with you, and so moved on to this twitter guy. Now, after she's already over you, you seem to want a relationship. She's just frustrated. She'll probably let you be friends, but...you put her in the friend zone once; she's just returning the favor.
- Alexis - 02-26-2014 02:13 PM
uhh she probably hurt dude...lol weird thing is this happened to me. she chased u nd chased u nd u just kept letting her nd u wudnt catch her so she moved on. she stopped running after u. she still likes u but she doesnt want to. so when u asked her out it probably hurt her. it hurt her becuz u waited to long. u can get her back but u hav to make sure u actually want her. nd u hav to make her fall for u again. just talk to her...before its too late. make her feel special nd dont talk any trash bout her cuz if she finds out she may get really hurt. more then ever. hopes that helped. good luck
- sisforsarcastic - 02-26-2014 02:20 PM
Okay, girls are a bit complicated (as you might have gathered, haha) She was probably offended by the fwb offer. A lot of girls find it degrading, especially if she has feelings for you. So, she might be trying to get back at you by making you jealous, standing you up, etc.
- Holly - 02-26-2014 02:30 PM
seriously not to be to rude or anything but u really screwed up big time...she thinks ur a dick.