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my boyfriend won't let me look at his phone should I be worried ? - Elias - 03-10-2014 10:08 PM
Lately my boyfriend has been going through my phone when I spend the night at his house I leave my phone with no lock because I have nothing to hide ... but lately my boyfriend has been going through text messages, Facebook messages, email,everything and anything I can talk to someone on and if he doesn't know the person he asks me who they are how I know them non of that bothers me what bothers me is that he has a lock on his phone and questions me everytime I even look at his phone for the time and he won't tell me his password or let me look at his phone at all like he's hiding something should I worry about this if so what should I do about it ?
- Brittany - 03-10-2014 10:21 PM
yes. get into his phone, email, fb, anything. i had this exact same experience and i left him bc he was cheating.
- Me Better - 03-10-2014 10:33 PM
You shouldn't even care! Don't let him look at your phone either, it's that simple
- Claire - 03-10-2014 10:45 PM
some people are just paranoid...im no expert on these things but most people are pretty protective of their phone... i sometimes think of my phone like a diary. its not like i have something to hind its just embarrassing
- EAN - 03-10-2014 10:47 PM
Just lock your phone too. Then if he wants to see it, then you should see his too. Chances are he hasn't done anything bad, but maybe you just looks at porn on his phone. That's not something that should surprise you, so prepare for that.
But the main point is that there should be trust between you two. You shouldn't be worried, but you should expect the same kind of access your boyfriend has given to himself and has restricted from you.
- LizzyBethBaby :o) - 03-10-2014 10:51 PM
Sounds awfully familiar. He's doing something shady, maybe not necessarily cheating but he has a guilty conscious. My ex did that to me and claimed he "liked his privacy" but was more than happy to rummage through my phone. I'm not one to play mind games but sometimes you need to give them a taste of their own medicine. I put a lock on my phone a few weeks after he did and acted like I didn't want him to see (take phone everywhere, tilt screen away, giggle at funny things & not tell him what) . He got so angry until I called him out and said let's switch then , right now. If he doesn't deal with you, that's a red flag hun. & remember- a relationship without trust , is nothing.
- Kara - 03-10-2014 10:54 PM
Lock your phone and pull him up about it! Being paranoid over you and being protective of his phone sounds like he's got a guilty conscience.
- Ali Hossain - 03-10-2014 10:57 PM
You should not worried but you should check his all emails, messages and conversations..
- Now Now - 03-10-2014 11:11 PM
Shove it up his butt on vibra mode.