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she calls me her best friend but she doesn't return my calls for months or tries to hang out with me? - rae(: - 03-24-2014 03:52 AM
We have been friend for quite a few years and about a year ago we became closer. she started calling me her best friend and we hung out a little and we would talk on the phone a lot. but in the last 8 months she never returns my calls or text messages. I hear from her literally every other month. I've tried to hang out with her but i feel stupid for even initiating. it because she never replies back. Is she busy? Yes, were both in college and she almost works full time. BUT how come she's on facebook every day posting status updates? Or has time to hang out with her other friends???
I tried talkimg to her about this but she never calls me back so its impossible. i hadn't heard from her for 2 months recently and she texted me today as if i never called or texted her. she says "hi best friend! How are you?" And i answer and she talks about how awesome her life is and then i reply and never hear from her again.
do i just stop putting in effort? Its making me feel ussed and stupid
Thanks
- eltigre312 - 03-24-2014 04:06 AM
Yes. Just leave it alone. Fire back at her by not replying. That'll piss her off.
- Cyeri2806 - 03-24-2014 04:15 AM
ouhh don't worry dear, funny how it just happened to me few weeks ago. we've been friend for more than 10 years and after we both in college it seems like we become further apart. i texted her and she didn't reply until a week later. then suddenly another week later she asked if i wanna hang out together.
don't worry too much, maybe she is busy with her life right now. or she has a problem and she don't want to tell you because she don't wanna you to worry about her. just don't act too desperate, try to give her some times and wait. i also kept seeing my best friend posted on fb, i almost comment on the status ask why she won't reply my texts. but then i realize it look so childish, so just wait okay
if you still worry try ask her directly and nicely of course.have a nice day
- Padmini - 03-24-2014 04:31 AM
Yes! just stop putting ur efforts n move on. Stop initiating. let her initiate if she really thinks that u r her best friend.