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do i have feelings for him, what do i do...? - BrightStar - 03-24-2014 08:27 AM
this may be a bit long but thanks in advance for answering
ok so there was this guy who i used to talk to. we got really close, we didnt go out or anything but i did have feelings for him them. but we said that were gonna be best friends and not go out. i used to tell him everything and he used to tell me everything. i just felt so comfortable around him
however, what i didnt know was that everything i told him about my life, he went and said all this to his friends. i also later on found out that he was only being like his to me coz he only had one thing in mind, how to get me into bed...
even though he knows that i will never loose my virginity until im married. he tried and tried. i felt so stupid and now live fear in case of what he might do with everything he knows about me.
and then a whole lot happened (fights, arguments ect) and we stopped talking. he blocked me on everything.
but for some reason i cant get him out of head. hes all i think about. my friends tease me about him but i pretend i dont like him. i go onto my old facebook account and look through his profile
do i have feelings for him? is this normal and what should i do?
- ProfGene.Togolot - 03-24-2014 08:43 AM
If you found out he was only trying to get you into bed whey do you have feelings about him? Do you enjoy being abused and lied to? Do you want to get into an abusive relationship or marriage because with that attitude that is exactly where you are heading.
- Bello - 03-24-2014 08:54 AM
Awwww you seem to have feelings for him I'm afraid
If I were you, after what he did to you I'd just ignore him and move on and ban yourself from the facebook thing and even avoid him and all that (I did that to get over this horrible person and it does work eventually 
) and maybe find a boyfriend to take your mind off it? Good luck with whatever you choose to do!
- Zachary - 03-24-2014 08:58 AM
No, if anything you should be disgusted, this guy was trying to get with you, I bet you anything he gave up on you and started skirt chasing another girl when he realized he wasn't going to get any pussy from you, so, in conclusion, just forget him. Trust me if you find enough people to complain about it to and those feelings will evaporate faster then water in an oven.
- Kosher - 03-24-2014 09:11 AM
i see that as normal....rejection is hard...espcially if it is for morals...but iIf a boy is not willing to respect a women's decision, then best not get involved...it is better to feel the pain of rejection now, then regret your actions later....the best thing you can do is move on find another guy to like, that is really the way how to get your mind of someone you really like....trust me i know -_-....and also now you can also focus on your self....listen to happy songs....my favorite song is "smile" sung by Michael jackson....find a hobby and be good at it....forget what information will he use against you....if he does then you made the right choose to move on because i know you dont deserve some immature boy.......it good he blocked you...that saves you the trouble...and delete his number.....stop looking at his pictures...forget everything about him...just understand that time is heals..you just have to find ways to pass it......
- Emma - 03-24-2014 09:15 AM
You can't help who you like but I think it would be best to try to stop feeling this way about him, he'll only break your heart
Just keep busy, try to not think about him and eventually you'll stop . Good luck