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Should I be worried about my girlfriends male friend? - Joseph - 03-24-2014 10:47 AM
I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months now and i really love her and i think she really loves me but the problem is she has this male friend (NOT best friend) that she's always talking to. He's an okay guy and i wasn't too worried at first but one of her friends (also my friend) told me that my girlfriend would go out with this guy if she wasn't going out with me. This upset me but i let it pass. He's in quite a few of her lessons (I'm not) and apparently sits next to her in all of them. They're always talking on facebook etc and sometimes I'm talking to her, he comes along and they start talking and ignore me. As well as this she's always liking his profile picture and likes bringing him into conversations.
I don't no whether I'm being paranoid its just something I'm worried about. (He's single by the way)
Thanks!
- Jimmy - 03-24-2014 10:53 AM
Talk to your girlfriend, not seriously just casually.
- Sierra - 03-24-2014 10:56 AM
Not trying to make you upset but you should be really worried about this guy. You don't know what they could be talking about and if your own girlfriend is ignoring you then you should really be looking out.
- monirul - 03-24-2014 10:58 AM
Sometimes it happens. so no tension.
- Ilas - 03-24-2014 11:03 AM
Oh boy, you are in a bad situation, any way you will bring him up you will end up in a fight with your girlfriend because she will defend him. Maybe the best way, is to ignore it for a while and try doing things with her and for her, after another 3 months or so you could mention him and maybe say that your friend told you that if you weren't with me you'll be with him. If she has this kind of feelings for him she will understand and try to slowly move away from him. Good luck.
- not this again - 03-24-2014 11:12 AM
That would not fly with me. If my boyfriend had some gal pal who he ignored me for during conversations etc I would dump him FAST. Tell her how you feel truthfully and ask her to limit time with this guy especially when your not around