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Does this girl like me? 10 points for best answer!? - Jason - 03-24-2014 11:06 AM
So there is this girl i met on this dating app and she gave me her number and facebook. she told me that shes had an asian boyfriend before (when i was telling her a story about this rude girl She said she wouldnt have given her my number if she didnt think i was attractive and nice (with a
)I asked her if she wanted to grab a drink on thursday and she said that she was meeting up with friends and said "Maybe another time" and that shes never met up wit someone from the internet before and it makes her a little nervous to do so cause she doesnt know what my intentions are.
I was initially kinda angry but didnt show it via txt/msg and instead just played it off cool and she replied: "wow thanks for understand. most guys would take it offensively".
I kinda asked her straight up if she was just letting me off easy and that i didn't want to really waste time and effort BUt she said: "i am really attractive and nice but just got to have precautions" she said shed be more comfortable to skype sometime once she finds her username and password.
Just a side note: she responds to my txts wthin a couple minutes and they are very lengthy. Do you think she actually is interested? and how would you guys recommend i proceed when dealing with this?
- Jennie - 03-24-2014 11:15 AM
She basically told you that she liked you!! Go for it babe! Good luck! Let me know how it goes! Answer mine please?
- Rachel - 03-24-2014 11:20 AM
I just started trying this whole online dating thing. I would say yes, it sounds like she is into you. I know I like to make a joke of meeting in a very public, well lit place for optimal serial killer assessment. It is scary the first time, but I would just try to make her comfortable. Be patient if you actually like her.
- ashley - 03-24-2014 11:27 AM
Yes ahe might u give more In a couple days..... to tell us kk I can tell u and babe message me n facebook Ashley Campbell
- Princessmarycelina - 03-24-2014 11:35 AM
Since it is her first time dealing with a situation like this, you have to go slow as well. I can tell that she's interested, so please be patient.
See it as a normal dating scenario, but this time, you have to be slow and patient. She'll be comfortable with you eventually. Just make sure that you're moving in a phase wherein you are both comfortable. Never push her too much, she'll get uneasy and uncomfortable. Trust is key.
- pinklovers - 03-24-2014 11:45 AM
Yea usually as us girls we tend to type alot to people we like more than friends. Take me for example haha. Trust me if a girl wouldn't like you she wouldn't take her valuable time to write alot. I understand her to take precision because you never know who u might be and etc. You should take precision too. What u can also do is give her time. Us as girls like boys who understand us and who don't pressure this will give her a warm feeling about u and u r intentions. Stay in touch with her and goodluck
- Noah_03 - 03-24-2014 11:49 AM
I think she is definitely interested, but a little nervous because of the online part. Start skyping like suggested for sometime, them, if she is still nervous have the first date as like a double date with a couple of friends or something to make it more comfortable. Hope this helped!
- MLo - 03-24-2014 11:51 AM
Yikes dude. It's very easy to flirt behind a keyboard (not that you're not hot!, lol just kidding. If a girl, or even us is into someone...she will not leave him guessing and wondering. Not all girls...just most. I knew everytime right out of the gate if a girl was into me and when I felt similar to how you do now (not knowing SUCKS. I'd rather know) I would step back and see if she'd step forward...usually it didnt go my way. This is just my experiences man, she could be just being cautious. Good luck bro!
- smile - 03-24-2014 11:53 AM
Oh she definitely likes you! You just have to understand girls have to be especially careful for online relationships. I think once you guys can talk on skype she'll feel more comfortable, and especially if you are planning to meet in a public place for a drink or lunch/dinner. Proceed how you have been as you seem to be doing fine. Try and be patient because she does sound like she likes you and is very interested, and her precautions are very reasonable.