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What should I say to my friend who "Cut me off"?(Please help)? - Joshua - 03-24-2014 04:24 PM

Me & him did date before and our chemistry was perfect but we broke up(November, but it was EXTREME personal reason). We became friends & I admit we argued over petty things but we always became cool again.

Well he supposedly "cut me off", but from what I seen on social media he going through some things. He been moved on & even had a boyfriend(but single.) We haven't talked since he "cut me off" last week but I don't think I'm the full problem. Ill admit we do have small feelings cause we loved each other @ 1 point but us dating prob. not happening again.

What should I message him(I know when he'll read it)? Should I ask if I call will he pick up...? Should I try being casual? Realistically do yall think he'll stay mad? PLEASE don't say "Stop acting like you tied down & go f**k other people" b/c Im not a H*e. I just saw a legit friendship.. Im gonna text him Saturday but I need help.. What to say???? We are 17 & go to different schools.


- Crazycactus479 - 03-24-2014 04:30 PM

I think what would be a nice jesture to go to his house and talk to him bring him a couple of his favorite stuff like candy and drink and food and chips and write I'm sorry on them talk it out but you don't wanna say sorry cause its not your fault but yea I get you I've been in your shoes email me we'll talk there thiskidwholoveswaffles@gmail.com I'm 17 aswell


- Nate - 03-24-2014 04:32 PM

Not meaning to sound lazy, but I'd just suggest saying something simple like "What's up?" That may strike up a conversation and if it doesn't say something meaningful. I've been in a similar situation myself. The guy completely stopped talking to me for over a month, and I just wanted an explanation as to why. So I started off with "whats up?" i think so anyway. And that actually worked.