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Avoiding the Friend Zone...:( Care to much about her? - Richard - 03-24-2014 04:34 PM
So, a couple weeks ago I met this girl. It was her, a friend and me, we had supper and went to a movie. Befriended her on Facebook and then started chatting. We chatted of and on in the beginning, I'd usually start a conversation every 3 days or so. Then, after about a week she started most of the conversations and now it's like a non stop conversation, we're not constantly texting but we more or less continue most of the day. So with the holidays we've been to busy to meet up again but we'll be at the same party next week. We sometimes are a bit flirty so to be honest, I can't imagine she doesn't know I like her. I also talked with her best friend who told me she hasn't spoken to her since that time (I know this is true and know she is not just avoiding to tell me she doesn't like me), so she doesn't know how she feels but she feels sure that the girl suspects the fact that I like her. I've been friend zoned before and really want to avoid that again... Thanks!
- xcourteaouschickx - 03-24-2014 04:39 PM
Play cool, when you hang out with her be flirty and outgoing and pull back on the texting/convo...if she's interested and initiates convo herself...keep doing what you're doing until you're comfortable to tell her you like her. and say like "I think I kinda like you"...and put the ball in her court.
- Daya - 03-24-2014 04:46 PM
I'm a girl and I'm guessing you want an honest answer here, well here you go. If you don't like being put in the friend zone then grow some balls and tell her how you feel. Don't be scared because your life is too short to be afraid. And even if you get rejected there are still more girls out there for you. So don't over think shit and just GO FOR IT.
- Jason M. - 03-24-2014 04:55 PM
The girl has already made a decision about whether she will date you or not.
If she does- then she's waiting for you to make a move. If she doesn't- she's hoping that you don't make a move and continue to be friends.
So what should you do? The only thing you can do is make a move and find out. If you just continue to hang out and DON'T make a move- then you miss your chance and she eventually finds someone else.