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My fiancee checked her ex's Facebook page. WTF!? - Jojoman - 03-24-2014 04:34 PM
I saw on my computer that my fiance checked her ex-boyfriends Facebook page. Why would she have any interest in that? I did catch her emailing him about a year ago, so I wonder if she is really over him. I have keystroke recorder after that last incident. Is this just curiosity? Why is there any reason to do that especially since we just got engaged? Is this just a glance to her past or is this a sign that she is trying to contact him or longing for her past.
She didn't communicated, it, she just visited it. As they were involved and she had written him before, I am a bit puzzled. You better believe I am wondering about the wedding. Right now, I really have a big trust issues and it stems from this type of stuff happening before.
It wasn't a search for a bunch of friends, it was a search of other guys Facebook pages.
My question is, why is there a need to even care what they are doing? That only leads to a response from them and then as we all know, disaster follows.
She wants to be my wife, but still feels a desire to "see what they are up to." I have to call bullshit on that one!
I know it's not cool to record keys, but it started for her daughter and making sure she wasn't trying to sneak some information past us. Keeping kids safe is more important than their privacy. Molesters don't care about anything but their habit. I will protect this young girl with everything at my disposal. Kids lie. I know. I was a kid once.
We both are in our 40's. I think a little too old for games.
- KitKat - 03-24-2014 04:35 PM
I'd be having a long talk with her. You may want to rethink this marriage proposal.
- peachyxkeen27 - 03-24-2014 04:41 PM
Okay 1. You shouldn't be keylogging her and looking at her past history. That's not cool.
2. Yes it's normal to look at your ex's facebook sometime. Sometimes you're just curious about what's going on in their life and how things are doing. Everybody facebook stalks sometimes.
- Lillie flower - 03-24-2014 04:48 PM
I do this from time to time, to just check in on my ex's. Just to see how they are doing a nd how there life has progressed. Now if she is logging into his facebook. I dont know what to tell you. maybe she thinks the person he is dating is all wrong for him. Other then that I can't tell you. I can tell you that I do e-mail all of my ex's save one. My first love. He died of cancer a few years ago. I do however call his mom everty year on the day that he died. We were togther when he passed away.
- Reece - 03-24-2014 04:57 PM
Its curiosity. A lot of us women cant help but to reminisce. I have female friends in particular that are happier in their relationships then they have ever been, but if someone knows something about their ex they will still be curious. its just how we are
- ? - 03-24-2014 05:05 PM
that is no good talk to her
- christapher - 03-24-2014 05:12 PM
Have you never wondered about your ex's? Keystroke recorder? Really? Sounds like there is no trust, which will surely lead to no relationship. Be open and ask about it in a loving way, not with suspicion. Let her know that you are looking for reassurance. After all, she did agree to enter the engagement, why should you think she doesn't want you? This sounds like a starting point for a long road of resentment.
- angel - 03-24-2014 05:21 PM
u should defintely talk to ur fiance and ask her why shes reading her exs facebook page .
- b - 03-24-2014 05:29 PM
I would be wary of this woman as she has u now and the ex is the past esp if u r about to be married. I hav exes and they stay in the past. She shouldn't really care about what her ex is up to but planning her future with you