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Is it an immature act to unfriend an EX from ur Facebook? - Paris - 03-24-2014 04:36 PM
After two weeks ignoring my txts, msges and calls, he finally got back to me saying we cant be together much longer because he thinks it's for best. He didnt even give me any explanation why he thinks so.. I felt so devastated knowing that I have done noting but always supporting him, being there for him and respect him. The way he treated me by ignoring my txtxs and calls was absolutely unacceptable. I am a kind of woman who always respect everyone and i expect the same from them. But in this case after year being close together leaving in a limbo with no explanation destroyed my feelings and self-steem...im still feeling very hurt but don't want to overreact either.
He still has me on his facebook and we have a lot of mutual friends who dont know we have broken up. But im not sure if i should remove him on fb or just ignore him and let him see that Im over him and happy with my life?( even though im not but i dont ant to give him the satisfaction that im still thinking about him )...Im very hurt...NEED YOU HELP PLEASE
- Michael - 03-24-2014 04:44 PM
It's good of you to want to think things through and not let your emotions completely rule your actions. Obviously, the ultimate goal will be for you to not care too much about his getting satisfaction. He sounds like he's treated you very badly the way he ended the relationship and if it weren't for mutual friends it would be good to be able to forget about him. Because of mutual friends, maybe you could block all posts and things of him from showing up on your wall and most importantly, avoid looking at his Facebook or any other posts, updates or photos of mutual friends which relate to him. Sorry about the break up, it will get better in time.
- Alejandro - 03-24-2014 04:54 PM
I don't see the need to be friends with an ex in real life or Facebook. If I break up with someone they are off Facebook. I don't want to hear about her and i don't want her to hear about me. There is no reason to stay in touch. Just move on.
- Gurupo - 03-24-2014 04:58 PM
My ex unfriended me when we broke up because she didn't want to see my future gf or me chatting up girls or seeing me with other girls.
To me it was closure for her.