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Should I work it out or move on? - destiny4l - 03-24-2014 04:57 PM
To make a long story short me and my child's father live in two different states, I recently moved back home, and did I also mention we recently broke up. Basically I had a conversation on Facebook with a male I went to college with, he asked how I was and that he wanted to meet my child's father and our child, he also said '' love ya and god bless'' and most of my friends tell me they love and miss me in a friendly way. Well my ex saw the post and went on about who was this guy and did we date, I said no, he's just being friendly. He told me that I was a slut and I cheated on him. At this point his insecurities have drove me insane. I'm a very social person and I know a lot of people which he already knows. My thing is he seems possessive and controlling. As if I have no right to talk to other people.
- Lara - 03-24-2014 05:00 PM
Hmmm I would run. ..
- Starry-eyed - 03-24-2014 05:07 PM
Please move on. This guy isn't worth it. A person should be able to trust you, and not control you.
- LP7 - 03-24-2014 05:09 PM
Your account on Facebook is your business.You don't need your ex's approval regardless of the content.You are an adult and it is your decision and your immediate concern for the welfare of your child.Your husband naturally is part of this arrangement only.Make it clear right from the start now that you are back home otherwise he will start making rules about your personal future.Stay focused and live your own life without his approval or opinions about who you are.No need to be nasty,or cold, just diplomatic and mature.Hopefully in time he will get on with his life too and your child can benefit from two great parents.
- jezreal - 03-24-2014 05:11 PM
my dear, the best is to work it out, try explaining to him. most REAL men are jealous and protective. talk to him about it. I know trust is a very important aspect of a relationship and without it i must say there is nothing, but sometimes, there may be doubts, but that does not mean there is no trust. Since you know the sort of person he his (jealous), then you should know how you socialise. relationship is all about sacrifices, today you are, tomorrow he might be the one to.... best of luck