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Why my relatives & family members are unfriending me on facebook? - ChOcoLaTe HoUse® - 03-24-2014 06:43 PM
I'm an introvert and i dont have talking skills like others. I prefer to stay alone... and also I dont have any job. So one day one of my cousin brother saw me online on Facebook & asked me why i dont talk with others (relatives & family) when i'm online.... & i explained that its not intentional..... because i hardly get online for just4-5min only.
Also they (my relatives) sent me invitation (on facebook) many times, to attend a community meeting held every month..... but i never showed up, because it was held in a different city.... where i had never been before.
So 1week ago when i changed my old profile photo, 6-7 of my relatives unfriend me in the next 3days. This new photo i uploaded is much better than the old one... infact it's my best looking pic till date (i also got many likes from college/school mates)..... but i dont understand why my relatives unfriended me. I feel very bad now.... because i never expected ppl from my family to unfriend me. And i think they hate me now. I dont know what's going on inside their mind. But i dont want to be outcasted.
Soo... what should i do to win back their confidence ?
- PEGGY S - 03-24-2014 06:56 PM
You need to ask them. No one here can read the minds of your family members.
- dawn - 03-24-2014 07:04 PM
Send them private messages and ask them why.
- aneeval - 03-24-2014 07:10 PM
It's just FB. Do you want to keep them in your fb friend list or in real life? If they are very close to you then you can call them and make everything fine.
- 553 - 03-24-2014 07:19 PM
take it easy. they sure seem to have some complex.
don't bother asking them.not worthy asking them. whether they accept you on FB or not they are your relatives in real.so leave it at that.
and so go on with your FB with your friends and other contacts.and don't be surprised & be prepared if some so called friends start unfriending you too in the long run. i am not discouraging you...but that is the scene on net these days...don't take it all to heart and get upset. so just be cool...hv fun ....and leave it at that.
good luck.
- udita - 03-24-2014 07:23 PM
that's very rude.. they dnt deserve you just let it be. if i were you i would never see their face again.
- Rahul - 03-24-2014 07:32 PM
that very rude.....
But i think if they are inviting you on your community meeting many times , so you should gone for even once...and as you have written you wont go out of your house because you doesn't have talking skills .....this is all crap unless n until you wont get out of your home face the outside world..meet various people of different nature with different mind set than only you can improve your skill.....if you will do like this you never get rid out of this problem and face this type of problem at every face of life.....so just face the conditions try to fight with them and be strong......and whenever you get time just talk to your relatives and try to go in your next community meet....at least you should known by your relatives, in some emergency they will help you only....