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She doesn't text first? - Luke - 03-25-2014 11:56 AM
I met this girl at a bar and got her a drink made her laugh and had a chat, I messaged her on social media and had a chat. I saw her the weekend after (last weekend) and we had a bit of banter she playfully slapped me on the arm and we had a laugh, I later on asked for her number via social media messaging when I got home and she said "Ha cheeky" and gave me her number, I've texted her quite a bit and asked her out for a date and she accepted and we're meeting up in two weeks. She never texts me first though, does that mean she's not interested or am I overthinking?
- Haidrogen - 03-25-2014 12:10 PM
YOU should text her first, you're the man..
- Jay R - 03-25-2014 12:19 PM
She has a lot of men interested in her and she can pick and choose. Your date with her is two weeks out, so how long is her list? She doesn't need to text first as long as some guy will enthusiastically do so. A drink, a laugh, a touch, a playful comeback do not a relationship make. You're at the flirtation stage, so don't expect too much.
- Trippin4You - 03-25-2014 12:25 PM
I do not enforce stereotypes and being the feminist I am, I believe in equality.
But, I have to say, I prefer when a man texts me first. It makes me thing "wow, he really likes me and he wants to talk to me"
- Randy - 03-25-2014 12:29 PM
Your overthinking it don't overthink it at least she is responding to u just keep doing what ur doing