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Help with trust issues? - fh - 03-27-2014 11:20 AM
so this girl and i are really close
we talk for hours everyday and are extremely alike.
she says all this great stuff about me, and she even talks about "us" having kids and doing stuff in the future.
shes even said that she loves me.
but the thing is, she lied to me in the past.
and i caught her flirting with guys over social media.
now i still do trust her, but i just question everything.
even if she tells me a hundred times that she doesnt care about any other guys, i still have a feeling that shes still flirting with them etc..
i want to be able to believe everything she tells me, but its extremely hard sometimes.
i have a feeling that my trust problems are going to ruin us eventually...
what can i do..
- Samantha - 03-27-2014 11:23 AM
I don't get it… Are you guys friends or in a relationship?
If you guys are just friends, then she's allowed to flirt with other people… But if you're exclusive, you should let her know that her lying to you makes you lose trust and you want to trust her
- melissa - 03-27-2014 11:26 AM
If you guys are not dating, then she really isn't doing anything wrong unfortunately. But if you guys are, then maybe you need to have a sit down conversation with her. Tell her how you really feel. Maybe she geeks inadequate to you. Sometimes girls will stray when they feel they are not being totally cared about. Good luck
- Moretime - 03-27-2014 11:41 AM
Hi Fh, what exactly is your question? It's not really clear what the situation is so no-one will be able to make anykind of informative response.
- Dark - 03-27-2014 11:43 AM
look man the best thing to do is to say all of this to her say to her that you have trust issues with her say: i don't like you flirting with other guys i don't like... be sincere man and tell how you really feel if she likes u and truly love u she will change for u in this surely okk
best luck