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Ladies Ladies i need help :(? - Elijah - 04-03-2014 12:27 PM
Due to alot of past relationships i tend to get jelous and scared and over protective. I just got with my girlfriend on the 9th. she swears to me that im the only guy she talks to and that she only wants me.. But my gut is saying otherwise. She told me that shes really serious but when i asked her to put that shes taken on instagram or facebook she says no. i only ask her to do it because i like guys to know that shes taken and that shes happy. idk maybe im over thinking this, but this has happend in my past and ive been cheated on the downlow. Should i believe her and just let it go? or should i be concerned that shes talking to someone? i dont wana push her away but i also dont wana get hurt again. Help! lol
- Natasha - 04-03-2014 12:30 PM
Send her a request if she doesn't respond ask y x
- Kitty - 04-03-2014 12:32 PM
Maybe she isn't ready to be exclusive.
- confused - 04-03-2014 12:34 PM
As much as you've been burned or hurt in the past you have learn to try and trust again. A relationship isn't going to work well if you two can't trust each other so maybe you need to give her the benefit of the doubt, if she says you're the only man in her life then you'd hope you could trust her enough to believe her. If you're too over protective and jealous you might just end up pushing her away.
- angel - 04-03-2014 12:37 PM
Don't make her suffer for what other girls has done to you.
my ex was like that and that's exactly the reason that I broke up with him.
A relationship is all about trust, so show her that you trust her.
A girl does not like being questioned all the time , not because she's doing anything wrong, but because we like to know that our guys trust us like we trust you.
The truth is you have to learn what the other person likes and dislikes, when you've figured that out and you are ready to compromise it will go a lot easier.
Regarding the instagram and facebook , just give it time before insisting on it right now.
Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel and why you feel like that.
It will be easier for her to understand if she knows why you have this particular feelings.
I hope it could help a bit
