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How should I treat this situation after what happened? - Vikings - 04-05-2014 06:39 AM
I am 22. She is 19. So this is my general feeling about the situation: I texted this girl and tried to meet up with her, but she ignored me when I tried to get a time from her(I know she was not busy). I feel like I was slightly played(based on some of our other interactions), but I think she would still take any offer to be friends because I think that might have been all she wanted in the first place(based on some reciprocal things like we both like talking to each other) I already have plenty of women friends. I know it is a numbers game, but it happens again, again, again, again, and again. Hell even when I hit the right number I am not even fully attracted which is so damn frustrating. I have just been as a combination emotionally effected and self-esteem has taken a little bit of hit toward women I always respect and am nice to women. I think I am an all right guy. My feelings toward this girl were weird like I felt this brother and sister thing toward her as I had off and on feelings as in like one day then not the next. I feel like texting her and talking about being friends is rather pointless. Also some of my past situations with women were rather just not very favorable.
So should I just make a stand toward this girl:delete our conversations, unfallow her on Twitter since we are not friends, obviously not text her, and ignore her when I see her.
I just feel like I am not getting enough respect and should not be treated like a doormat. I fully expect her to still want to be friends when I text.
- Loki, The Banana - 04-05-2014 06:51 AM
Yes, you should unfollow her on Twitter since you are not friends anymore.