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Should I Keep Seeing Her? - tyber - 04-08-2014 04:30 AM
This girl that goes to my school randomly added me on Facebook in December and has been talking to me pretty much non-stop. She always mentions how she doesn't have a boyfriend and hates how people go for looks over personality. However, with that said she told me that I'm not attractive enough to/for her so she wont date me but she also said she likes talking to me/hanging out and thinks I have an great personality. Now, I'm not like super crazy about this girl but I do kind of like her a little bit and I'm afraid that if I keep talking to her and hanging around her I'm going to really start to like her and just end up hurting myself in the end. She seems to think that wont happen because it hasn't with her other guy friends.
She has also mentioned that in the past she's had no attraction to friends but over time from really getting to know them and hanging out, she has very rarely developed feelings for them so I shouldnt count on it but it's possible. The thing is though, do I keep talking to her and risk me just liking her more while she still views me as undatable or is it worth the "risk" to hope things change? On the off chance she ends up with someone else (She's never had a boyfriend before and doubts herself), I'd probably get hurt/jealous too. She's always said it's her dream to have her boyfriend be a friend first. Any advice?
I cant really just cut her off. I don't really want to either. And no, she doesn't secretly like me or anything
- Jennifer - 04-08-2014 04:31 AM
Dude, she flat out told you that you aren't attractive enough for her. That's selfish and conceited. You are wasting your time and getting used by her, and getting nothing in return except hopeful feelings she'll lower her standards for you.
- Emily - 04-08-2014 04:32 AM
Don't get your hopes up. I've been in a similar situation but in the end I just ended up hurt. I don't want that to happen to you. If you don't meet her "standards" then she doesn't except you for who you really are. Who would want to be in a relationship like that?
- debbie - 04-08-2014 04:39 AM
Shes a game player----but shes honest----maybe you show her to much-----keep your tongue in your mouth----play hard to get-----it works----but she is conceited----that drops her value considerably