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I always feel nervous around my girlfriend? - john - 04-08-2014 04:31 AM
Hello guys!
So about two months ago or so, this girl who lived close to me but who I had never met before messaged me on Facebook and made it obvious she was interested in me. I had never had a girlfriend prior to this and I was nervous that a girl as perfect as her wanted me. We went to a movie a week later and I was so so so nervous to meet her. During the movie I barely talked to her and she spent the whole movie wondering if I was interested in her. I told her it was just nerve wracking to meet a girl and go on a date with her the same night. By the way, she was the first girl that was my type that liked me. But we hung out over the next couple weeks and before I left for a week long trip I asked her out and kissed her. Every time before I hang out with her, I get super nervous and always have the urge to cancel on her. Like I spend the whole day before I hang out with her constantly looking at the clock and counting how much time I have before I hang out with her. But when we're hanging out, I don't feel nervous. I need to get over the nervousness I get before hanging out with her, and the nervousness I get when we part ways after hanging out when I don't know what to say or if I should kiss her and not make it look awkward. I'm hanging out with her tomorrow and I've already started looking at the clock to see how much time I have left. :/ I need help guys.
- Holly - 04-08-2014 04:32 AM
You sound like you have anxiety issues. Ever tried talking to a therapist?
- Ansley - 04-08-2014 04:37 AM
It's cute that you're nervous for the first few days, but after a while it wont be so cute anymore. Honestly be yourself!! thats why she likes you, don't be the nervous turtle, because she most likely doesn't like that.
- LOL - 04-08-2014 04:38 AM
Mmmm dude. I had the same thing but think about it thia way... so ur going out with the one you love and ur nervous maybe you need to talk to her more and its normal to be nervous just relax dude its a date not a job interview