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Why did he message me? Was he jealous? 10 pts for best answer? - anonymous - 04-08-2014 04:37 AM
So yesterday, April fools day, I changed my relationship status to "in a relationship" as a joke. One of the guys who I've been out with a few times said, "oooo... lucky you!" I said it was a joke a few minutes later. I am confused as to why he would comment. He hasn't contacted me in 3 months and didn't even tell me he was back in town for spring break; I found out from a friend. The weekend before spring break, he had lunch with a girl that likes him. She posted pictures on facebook and a status saying how thankful she is for him and his 2 friends. He commented "We love you". He was the only one who commented. I figured they were in some sort of romantic relationship.
Our Relationship
Our "relationship"--going to lunch and a movie--was alright until January. We would hang out when he came to town and sometimes message over Facebook. I would text him and could tell the only reason he replied-with very short answers- was to be polite. I decided not to contact him at all unless he contacted me first and i haven't contacted him at all. Yay me!
Here are the options I've narrowed the meaning of his comment down to:
1: He knew I was joking and wanted to play along ( the meaning of the comment seemed mean to me)
2: He wanted to show me that he doesn't have a crush on me and supports me being with someone else ( before we started hanging out, he complimented me but said he didn't have a crush on me)
3: He was somewhat jealous and couldn't pass up the opportunity
- Ann - 04-08-2014 04:46 AM
Maybe he did not know it was a joke. Inform him
- Thomas - 04-08-2014 04:52 AM
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- Kelbel - 04-08-2014 04:55 AM
All 3 points that you've mentioned sound possible. If I were in this type of situation, I might lean toward your first guess. His comment did not seem too polite. I'm not making any statements or anything; it was just my first assumption.
- Kelly - 04-08-2014 04:59 AM
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