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i talk to three different dudes at one time? - Zakia - 04-08-2014 04:46 AM
Ok please dont judge me.... okay i have a boyfriend who i never seen in person before he cool and stuff but he doesnt announce that im his girlfriend at all not even on Facebook, then its this other boy who i been talking to on and off for a year now and i really like him but he never has time for me i meet him one time and i lost my virginity to him i love him so much but he is something else,and finally its this new dude i just start talking to like a week ago and i really really like him we have so much in common he funny and we can talk about anything..... i just need some counseling i cant talk to my friends cus i dont want to be considered as a hoe even doe thats what im acting like so please no cruel answers
- H - 04-08-2014 04:48 AM
Lose the boyfriend. And choose the second one. Cuz if you loved the first one, you never would've considered the second one
- H Pockets - 04-08-2014 04:50 AM
You said you hadn't met one of these guys. I don't know about the last one. Honestly, I would definitely go with someone you can see in person. It does make a difference to be able to spend time with someone and go out and do things you like to do. Maybe you should make a list of what you really want in a partner and see who lines up best with those qualities. For example, having similar interests, sense of humor, loyal, etc. Whatever you think is best for you. I definitely wouldn't continue leading a group of guys on. It's not fair to anyone involved.
- Bob - 04-08-2014 04:59 AM
Guy #1 is embarassed of having an Internet gf, and MAY have a real one. Get rid of him.
Guy #2 doesn't have time for you = Guy #2 doesn't love you. Get rid of him.
Guy #3 sounds good so far. Go for him.