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My ex messaged me? - Samantha - 04-08-2014 06:31 PM
THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING WITH HIM. So PLEASE don't say that.
My ex and I got into this HUGE fight 2 months ago, where mean things were said on both sides and I thought he didn't want to be friends or whatever.
We didn't talk for 2 months.
We play in the same soccer league on sundays, and 3 weeks ago, I saw him and tried talking to him but all he said was "sorry, can't talk"
I was blocked on Facebook.
So I guess he unblocked me
Until Friday, when he messaged me on Facebook, saying "you wanted to talk the other day? I'm listening…."
So we were kind of texting for a little bit but then he stopped responding… lol
Why would he message me?? And then stop responding after a little? Lol
So I messaged him on Facebook yesterday and said "so since you obviously won't say anything, until you hear what I wanted to say - I don't understand why that argument (the one I apologized for) made us stop being friends or whatever lol" but he read it last night and didn't respond...
Do you think he is reconsidering being friends since it's been a couple of months since the argument?
Do you think he was thinking about me? I kind of think he was...
But why would he just stop responding? He doesn't want to just jump back into being close friends?
- Laura - 04-08-2014 06:32 PM
He still cares about you so go ahead and talk to him. Let go of the past relationship you had.
- Bugs Bunny - 04-08-2014 06:37 PM
He kinda sounds like a douche who wants you to do all the work. He may have missed you but the fact that you had to make the first attempts at speaking to him means that if it was left to him, the two of you still wouldn't be talking. Leave it alone. Trust me, I have experience.
- Vyktor1971 - 04-08-2014 06:41 PM
You tried to talk to him he gave you time, he didn't feel you had a valid point so he stopped talking to you. He doesn't want to be friends.....get over it.