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should I talk to him on facebook? - savvia - 04-08-2014 08:08 PM
so there is that guy, he goes to my school, I dont know him and he doesn't know me in person but we made eye contact a few times. I really like him but I'm afraid that he'll reject me If I talk to him but I really want to. My friends tell me to send him a msg on fb but I really don't know what to do. So... should I talk to him or nah? ://
- Joseph - 04-08-2014 08:13 PM
So, let's say you send him a message on Facebook and he ignores it? What then? If he thinks you're a dork, he'll show all his friends your message and you'll be the joke of his crowd. Trust me...I was a high school boy at one time...
He goes to your school, you see him, so say hello as you're walking past each other making your "eye contact". It's really not that hard. See what his response is. Do this every day. You'll be able to tell by his body language if he's the least bit interested in you. After a few days, see if you can find him after school and "accidentally" bump into him.
Now, what is it that you like about him? You say you don't know him and he doesn't know you, so how do you "like" him? Looks? Is he the big jock that everyone wants to date? All shallow. The only way to know if you like someone is by getting to know them. Facebook is NOT the place to make initial contact if you know the person and see that person daily. Facebook is so impersonal.
- Merrypark888 - 04-08-2014 08:15 PM
hi,i dont know,if this will help or even answer your question,but here it goes,
i have been in this situation before where i liked a guy and i really wanted to talk to him,normaly,what id do to get his "attention"would be just to poke him. you might think thats werid.,silly or just plain stupit but its not ..trust me ,i have tried it and i ended up being with that guy[i poked]
we poked.we messaged,we talked,we meet f-t-f and we finally ended up getting together.
just gave it a go, who know what will happen,if it doesnt then you where you stand .and realise this guy isnt worth it.and you u gave it a go/
good luck.
- Daniel - 04-08-2014 08:19 PM
Talk To Him Send Him a Message Start With a Hello Whats up
Than Go From There Ask Him How He is Doing
Find Out About What He likes and Talk About Things Like That
Good Luck