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Why did he take the time to comment if he doesn't like me? Was he just being mean? 10 pts for best answer.? - anonymous - 04-08-2014 08:42 PM
So yesterday, April fools day, I changed my relationship status to "in a relationship" as a joke. One of the guys who I've been out with a few times said, "Ooooooo... lucky you!" I said it was a joke a few minutes later. I am confused as to why he would comment. He hasn't contacted me in 3 months and didn't even tell me he was back in town for spring break; I found out from a friend. The weekend before spring break, he had lunch with a girl that likes him. She posted pictures on facebook and a status saying how thankful she is for him and his 2 friends. He commented "We love you". He was the only one who commented. I figured they were in some sort of romantic relationship.
Our "relationship"--going to lunch and a movie--was alright until January. We would hang out when he came to town and sometimes message over Facebook. I would text him and could tell the only reason he replied-with very short answers- was to be polite. I decided not to contact him at all unless he contacted me first and i haven't contacted him at all. Yay me!
Here are the options I've narrowed the meaning of his comment down to:
1: He knew I was joking and wanted to play along ( the meaning of the comment seemed mean to me)
2: He wanted to show me that he doesn't have a crush on me and supports me being with someone else
3: He was somewhat jealous and couldn't pass up the opportunity
I understand he doesn't like me anymore. But why comment if he doesn't? Was he just being mean?
@Nicky, I appreciate your sense of humor
- Nicky - 04-08-2014 08:43 PM
nah... he was just being polite...
- Timothy - 04-08-2014 08:53 PM
He was probably just joking. Wasn't trying to be mean, wasn't trying to revive any old feelings, just saw your status pop up on his news feed and thought a quick comment would be fun.
I wouldn't over think it...
- H - 04-08-2014 09:03 PM
Already answered your first posted question. Don't worry so much...