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How do I know if this girl actually likes me? - ZipGB8 - 04-14-2014 06:05 PM
I am 28, this girl I have been talking to and occasionally seeing and going on dates with is 34. We text each other a little bit each day and we talk on the phone for about an hour once a week. I have been talking to her for almost 2 months and we've seen each other at least once every 2 weeks. I told her how I felt and said, "I really like you, I haven't felt this way about a girl in a long time." and she would say how the feeling is mutual. All she has said was "I would like to get to know you better." She's never said anything like, "I hope this develops into something on a different level further down the road." or anything like that.
We have done different things and activities and have always had fun together. She's introduced me to her sister, her dad, and her mom. I like her family and they like me. I know she hasn't had too many boyfriends in her life and seems like the girl who takes things slow at first, which is fine. She always says how much she likes my compliments, enjoys being with me, always has fun with me, and is worth her time.
But I'm not fully convinced she likes me as much as I like her. I can't tell if she likes me and wants to be with me or if she just wants to be friends and have fun with me. It's hard to tell. She hasn't told her friends she's been seeing me. She doesn't post anything on Facebook about me. She doesn't tag me about anything on Facebook or say she's "with" me on there. It's like she wants to hide it. Not sure what to think.
- Stephanie - 04-14-2014 06:15 PM
Well I say ask her out for Christ's sake. If she says yes, make it facebook official after a couple days. She seems to really like you, and I think you are looking too much into it. If she doesn't accept your relationship status, confront her about it. I think the best thing for you to do is make it official. Hope this helps.