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Depressed....Can somebody help me please.. i'm in love with a celebrity? - Dos - 04-19-2014 06:06 PM
Okay, i'm a 15 year old boy and i'm in love with Melanie Iglesias, I mean i knew about her for a long time, but then i started watching her on tv (guy court/code) and i watched some of her interviews and from then on i'v been depressed knowing that i'll never be or have a chance with her! I mean i know that this is just a phase for teenagers, i keep telling myself just ignore the feeling i have for her but thats just making it worse.
I tried to distract myself by hanging out with friends and even hanging out with my crush, and i'm even losing feelings for my crush because my mind keeps comparing her to Melanie Iglesias. I'm so worried because In my mind i will never be satisfied with my future girlfriend or wife after feeling this way about melanie Iglesias! Shes like 26 and i'm 15, so i know it can't ever happen! Now its making my life feel useless, I just wanna sit around all day because nothing excites me anymore! i'm really deppressed! Please any advice! need serious help
- idk - 04-19-2014 06:12 PM
I went though a serious fangirl phase with lana del rey. I still love her so much and always will. I feel like i personally know her rather than just liking her music or thinking shes 'the perfect celeb'. I know how you feel. It's part of being a fan. I cried so so much over her and its just something you'll get over. I am the same age as you so we've got plenty of time to find our soulmate. We shouldnt compare real life friends to celebs bc obviously there is no comparison. I would suggest just let time play its course and your fanboy-ism will die down. You can always reach out to her on twitter or social media. Maybe you can talk to eachother that way. Also have faith you'll meet her one day. Dont give up. Good luck with everything you face in life and this crazy life of fan-boying
- Oscar - 04-19-2014 06:27 PM
I feel completely the same way! I'm in love with Harry freaking styles he's like 20 and I'm almost 15! It's absolutely ridiculous! I always compare my crushes with him and end up not liking them! It's so predictable I'm in love with Harry styles like every girl is, but I know I have 1 in a 1000000 chance with him! It sucks when your in love with a celebrity! Sorry I didn't hep much, I was just amazed someone was going through the same problem as me ahaha
- wowpow32 - 04-19-2014 06:29 PM
i think you just need a girlfriend and with a healthy relationship you will get past all this, good luck