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My sister is perfect help!!!!!? - Thea - 04-26-2014 05:33 PM
Right, so I'm 14, quite clever, have a few close friends and am about average in popularity, one weird boy fancies me and all the rest think I'm ugly.
I've got a pride thing where I don't let anyone see when I'm hurt so I tell my parents and sister that I'm really popular and boys fancy me, but my 13 year old sister has recently been asking people in my year about me and they say I'm weird fat and annoying. Emily, my sister, is absolutely STUNNING, and by far the most popular person in her year. With our family she is more confident and I think they probably like her more. At school ALL THE BOYS FANCY HER, and say she's hot funny and cool and tonight she changed her profile picture on Facebook and a boy in my year commented "how the hell are you Thea's sister" and I just felt like crying but I didn't want to tell Emily how I felt so I turned it in to a joke and asked her to delete the comment which she did but this kinda thing happens every day, any advice, am so upset
- Some - 04-26-2014 05:40 PM
Well just wait when ur older and puberty will finish working on you and you will look even more stunning than u do now ! And just ignore them tey are big fat manwhores
- Kim - 04-26-2014 05:48 PM
She's not perfect--probably you are the only person who thinks so. Having a sibling is not a contest, it's a collaboration. OK, so she's skinnier. You must be better at something than she is. Don't compete head to head. Find something you are better at--science, math, cooking, volunteering, identifying bugs, whatever. Shine on your own stage. D.on't dance in the shadows on hers
- EllaSims - 04-26-2014 05:55 PM
I'm so sorry!!! But for my experience I can tell you that things change.
I wasn't popular at all in my high school . People would make fun of me just because i was quiet and they thought i was ugly etc.... Now I'm 27 and by far more good looking and full of friends and acquaintances than the "popular" girls of my high school years...
So you know what? Just try not to give a fuck. And also, try to use your sister (not in a bad way) but try to tell her how you feel. She loves you so she could give you advice and if they like her in the end they will like you as well.
If not... screw them . You're still in puberty, and it's normal... But try to take care of your body and clothes and you'll see when you grow up a little bit, a couple of years...
xx bye honey and don't be upset.