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my ex added me back on fb, really short answer, plz help? - hugeguide293 - 04-27-2014 10:40 PM
he broke up with me last year, ignored me for 9 month, deleted me from fb n said many mean things.. i didn't contact him for 3 month n now he added me back on fb.. should i
A) accept his friend request
B) ignore his friend request
C) let it be, not accept it or ignore it
D) block him from fb
i want to show him that i dont care about him and i have moved on
- Tommy - 04-27-2014 10:47 PM
its up to you i would accept it and still just ignore him dont like his posts, dont reply to his messages, etc
- Andre H. - 04-27-2014 10:55 PM
ignore the friend request..i mean he ignored you for 9 months now wants to RE add you..yeah dont let him have his way
- Nicole - 04-27-2014 11:04 PM
I think the best thing you can do is just ignore the request. That will definitely prove that you have moved on and don't care. It will also remove him from your life. There is no reason for either of you to spy on each other though facebook. It will just cause you stress.
- luther - 04-27-2014 11:07 PM
A
- Paul - 04-27-2014 11:10 PM
ignore it
- BobbyT - 04-27-2014 11:12 PM
D) block him from fb
It's the only way to show him that you don't care and you've moved on. All other options will give him hope to keep trying.
- Iona - 04-27-2014 11:19 PM
accept it but ignore him if he tries to talk to you
- XICarmenIX - 04-27-2014 11:24 PM
1. Accepting the friend request
- He might think that you're okay with him
- You want him back
2. Ignore his friend request
-You can't be bothered with him
- also means you still hold a grudge
3. Let it be
-you still care about him cuz you're keeping the request and thinking of whether to accept it
If I were you. I'd confirm the request. But I wouldn't chat/MSG/comment on any of his stuff on fb cuz if I were to do it. I'd seem desperate.
Only if he talks to you. You reply. But with short statements and not so personal stuff.
Just treat him as a friend that ain't close to you but you know him.
- Rely025 - 04-27-2014 11:30 PM
Accept his friend request but ignore his messages.