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will she come back one day :(? - Fanaticalwilderness652 - 04-27-2014 10:57 PM
I took this beautiful girl (who goes to my college) on a few dates a month ago who was my crush in last semester and I was extremely happy since I finally had the balls to ask her out. Everything went really well (she said she liked me and we made out) except I mentioned "love at first sight" on fb chat which made her feel uncomfortable.
2 days later after our dates,she told me she wasn't looking for a relationship and wanted to stay friends. I was really upset but then she messaged me that night kept saying she was sorry and starting to flirt with me again.
We hung out a few times after that (we'd still kissed) and finally one day at school, I saw her walking passed by and I kept calling her name however she pretended I didn't exit and kept on walking. I was really pissed and frustrated so I asked her for the reason on fb. She replied "You make me uncomfortable ever since you said the "love at first sight" thing. Really freaked me out tbh". I was stunned. I treated her so damn well and she just used the same old bs from 3 weeks ago to tell me to fk off? I was just so heart broken!
After that, i got myself drunk for the next two days (bad decision I know, I'm not really a drinker anyway) and I just kept trying to get her out of my head but nothing worked. What do you guys think I should do? I just can't take this anymore. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
P.S. We haven't talked for more than a month but still see each other in the library.
- Delk - 04-27-2014 11:01 PM
Move on bud, move on.
- april sunshine - 04-27-2014 11:07 PM
Get rid of fb account. I dont have one anyways. She got scated bcause you hsve s big mouth.
- DY - 04-27-2014 11:10 PM
Am not sure if her heart is still with you. so you just stay off her and see if she will come back one day. you see almost everyday but that's not the issue. The main thing is does she still feel anything for you.just let her be and focus on your studies. get rid of her contacts and stop looking for her. with time you will get over her.
hope this help?
- Steve11 - 04-27-2014 11:15 PM
It's over man. Move on.
- Samantha Defferary - 04-27-2014 11:23 PM
talk to her. be extremely casual and flirty take her out to another date(s) and never mention the word love. if she ever mentions it laugh and say you didnt mean it. it doesnt matter if she believes you or not.
- Christina - 04-27-2014 11:32 PM
If she really liked you she wouldn‘t tried pushing you away like that. move on.