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My boyfriend chat with girl on fb? - elishah - 04-28-2014 12:00 AM
Hi all,
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship more than a year and he still chat with other girls on fb.
Sometimes he flirt an sometimes not.
Even though he is on fb he still chats with me. He know I know he chat on fb .
We fought for this matter.
And he mention among all girl I chat u are my gal and there is a difference adding on he say "is this all u have known me all this months?"
This verse makes me feel guilty. I trust him but wen it comes to girl that is my weakness
He loves me alot and though I'm the one being fighting with him . He always make thing better for us.
I don't hw to complain to him about my feeling and that he would change.
He even say he can't change the fact he is chatting with girls?
Plz advice
Thank you in advance.
He is not sleeping with any of the girls
He gave me his password sometimes I will check if he is cheating on me. Not being a stalker but I guess everything girl wants a guy who is faithful as I'm loyal to him.
- Tam - 04-28-2014 12:01 AM
Is he screwing them? If not then don't worry about it.
- Sssm.2013 - 04-28-2014 12:03 AM
I don't think just chatting is prohibitive. It could be just friendship nothing more. It could be jealous view from your side. Give him some time and observe closely ... If you have proof that he is going close to other girls beyond limit, then think of saying good bye. other wise be cool for the time being
- Emily - 04-28-2014 12:05 AM
Girl- Chill. I had the same problem with my ex. and as you can see he is my "ex" now. Because I blew it with him!! I got to frigging jealous of him and other girls, even girls he was friends with but had bfs... you know girl- not worth it. If you love him a lot, youll let him talk to these other girls as long as you know he loves you truly. If he's screwing with you and you know it (as in if he is flirting with these other girls about things that are serious and saying they arent serious to you), then not a good idea to continue the relationship. Dump his ass.
Just dont make any rash decisions. Chill for now. If he continues, then let him know how you feel and show him you're upset by it, if he doesnt care and still does it but denies it to you and you know he's probs cheating- dump his ass. You have more to life than a cheating dick. k?
Hope this helped.
- ZAFAR - 04-28-2014 12:12 AM
Nothing wrong because he might feel others as his sister .
- Cookie - 04-28-2014 12:20 AM
Hey
Don't freak out and don't think too much ..try to calm yourself
and also talk to him without fighting ..
tell him that you trust him and you love him very much
but the fact that he chats with other girls hurts u and u don't wanna put
yourself in that position or risk your relationship ..tell him of course there is a difference
you are his girlfriend and they're just a bunch of girls on fb so it's really not fair to compare !!
tell him that when u love someone you should only see them as ur world and not go and talk n also flirt with other girls ..
what if u go and chat with other guys ???!!! wouldn't that make him mad and upset ??
try to talk to him and show him how much u really care ...
take care and Good luck