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Girls, I need your judgement.? - Alex - 04-28-2014 02:17 AM
Hey girls, I need some of you all's opinions. I'm a college guy, and lately, I've been working really hard on "uping" my game. I've always been a shy, unconfident guy, so I figured it was time for a change. It's safe to say that my confidence has increased exponentially, haha; however, I've never really been able to pick up any really attractive girls. It's not that I act like a creeper or anything. All I say to them is "Hi! What's your name?/Where you from?/What's your major?"... you know, small talk and all. They all smile at me like I'm cute too, but then they always seem to go for the really big, swole, muscular dudes right after talking to me.
I'm not super skinny. In fact, I'm really define and athletic, but I'm not super jacked either. So my question is, am I just cute (like a puppy or kitten) or am I hot? Or am I just straight up ugly? It's important to know because I don't want to keep trying to go for these hot girls who are going to reject me (at least they do it nicely though). Please be honest in your opinions. I won't be offended, believe me.
Links to pictures:
http://s1169.photobucket.com/user/patrick_james3/media/Facebook/Profile%20Pictures/1491722_322855461186298_1634030283_n.jpg.html
http://s1169.photobucket.com/user/patrick_james3/media/Facebook/Profile%20Pictures/1383671_306107929527718_676187839_a.jpg.html
Links again:
http://s1169.photobucket.com/user/patrick_james3/media/Facebook/Profile%20Pictures/1491722_322855461
186298_1634030283_n.jpg.html
http://s1169.photobucket.com/user/patrick_james3/media/Facebook/Profile%20Pictures/1383671_306107929
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- loljksomg - 04-28-2014 02:19 AM
So usually he guys who ask these add a picture and you are like oh god, they aren't attractive this is awkward for them not gonna answer this haha but you're cute, you seem normal and nice I don't get why girls wouldn't go for you, maybe you're being to open try and be more mysterious, so maybe a bit sarcastic give the girls a reason to work for you so that you aren't putting yourself out there. Congrats on being more confident it takes loads of time to get more talkative etc I'm still working at that aha good luck I'm sure the right girl will come along. Answer mine? http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoernRNQlaO0NjNoiEorrpSc4yA5?qid=20140324175833AAeb2kk
- Adriana - 04-28-2014 02:28 AM
Well it also might be just bad timing. You might talk to a girl who really isnt interested in you. Just be confident. If you get rejected, its not the end of the world (: try and be gentle. Sometimes past adventures can be interesting to listen to. Just pretend your whole conversation is a letter. Your greeting, and then the first sentence will be that catches her attention. Don't be too straight forward. The body of the letter, can be somethine interesting. I dont know. Just a suggestion. Hope it works
-good luck c:
- Justin - 04-28-2014 02:34 AM
Not a girl but it sounds like you are after the wrong kind of girls. That was my problem in college anyway. Frat parties and stuff like that just didnt attract the right kind of girls. I joined some clubs and met girls who were into different things. Worked wonders for me. Find your forte man!