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why would a guy do this? - Ell - 04-28-2014 04:47 AM
Basically, we hooked up. We were in the same friend group. After I opened up about my sexual abuse one night, and he said I could trust him, I said I wanted more. He said we should be friends, since it would be for the best.
Later at a party, he was trying to get all close to me. I kind of blew him off in a friendly way (since we were just supposed to be friends). I text him 2 hrs later and he blows up on me saying to leave him and his friends alone.
He unfollowed me on twitter, I deleted him on facebook.
But on snapchat, I posted a cute picture of me & my stuff animal to my story. And he viewed it...
Why? Why would he view that? I feel like he shouldn't even care...
Not that I would ever go back to that..
- awesomeman - 04-28-2014 04:56 AM
he mabey dumb
- K - 04-28-2014 05:03 AM
Because us guys can be real a-holes. But this goes way beyond that. He is a classless scumbag who has no respect for you. You should just forget him and remember not all of us guys are like this jerk, or the one who abused you.
- Danger - 04-28-2014 05:09 AM
I'm sure theres so much more to this than you are saying but regardless he did it because you are a waste of time in his book(I say that because you turned him down) and you bruised his ego. You should definitely forget about this one.
- Jennifer - 04-28-2014 05:12 AM
Well see, he said he wanted to be friends only because you opened up to something that you must have taken pretty hard. But then, you told him you wanted more, maybe he just didn't want to put pressure on you.
Maybe, at the party he might have been drinking and felt like it'd be okay to try and go for it. By you blowing him off, of course he'd be upset just like how you were upset about when he tried getting close to you.
No matter what, guys will somehow come back and try to find out stuff about you, especially when you don't need them anymore or when you have lost interest. It's same thing with girls.
hey, maybe he has feelings for you but doesn't know how to tell you.
- lookiefootsy - 04-28-2014 05:20 AM
Guys are a pretty dangerous species lol jk
- Andrew - 04-28-2014 05:29 AM
Still probaly likes you