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Am I right to just play it cool or should I message her online? - Romans 11:29 - 04-28-2014 09:57 AM

I met this girl who I believe is interested in me. We met last week and I will not see her again for 2 or 3 weeks. I have her Facebook. Should I get a hold of her online or just play it cool and wait until I see her in person again?

These are going to be the longest 3 weeks of my life. I can't wait to see her again.


Thanks for answers. God bless you!

I'm already FB friend. For like a week and we met only once. I just can't help but think it might come off as clingy, desperate, or strange. And I recollect one time when I was in college a girl said being approached online is a turnoff.

We are both in our 20's

If I had her number I would shoot her a text. I don't have her digits yet though


- Lillie - 04-28-2014 10:00 AM

Okay,so,my advice is on fb cheekily ask for her phone number,if she is reluctant (probably not if she likes you) then play it cool but then if she isnt then drop her a text so she has your phone number,dont hold the text conversation for long,but the next day,ask her if you can call her then you can hear her voice,keep calling her for around a week (not every day,hit a day,miss a day;]) and if she hasnt asked you if you have facetime or anything,you ask her. Play it cool and say 'look youre real cute and i was just wondering if you have skype or anything so i can see your face?' if all goes well then good job! Dont facetime or call her everyday,for the days you dont facetime or call text every so often. We dont want her to think youre needy or too distant so try to be cool with how many times you call and text. Best of luck!