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Sigh...did I really screw up big time? - ShriekingMenace537 - 04-28-2014 05:17 PM
I took this gorgeous girl (who goes to my college) on a few dates a month ago who was my crush in last semester and I was extremely happy since I finally had the balls to ask her out. Everything went really well (she said she liked me and we made out) except I mentioned "love at first sight" on fb chat which made her feel uncomfortable.
2 days later after our dates,she told me she wasn't looking for a relationship and wanted to stay friends. I was really upset but then she messaged me that night kept saying she was sorry and starting to flirt with me again.
We hung out a few times after that (we'd still kissed) and finally one day at school, I saw her walking passed by and I kept calling her name however she pretended I didn't exit and kept on walking. I was really pissed and frustrated so I asked her for the reason on fb. She replied "You make me uncomfortable ever since you said the "love at first sight" thing. Really freaked me out tbh". I was stunned. I treated her so damn well (bought her expensive accessories, took her and her mom to fancy restaurants) and now she wanted to fk off?Why?
After that, i got myself drunk for the next two days (bad decision I know, I'm not really a drinker anyway) and I just kept trying to get her out of my head but nothing worked. What do you guys think I should do? I just can't take this anymore. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
P.S. We haven't talked for more than a month but still see each other in the library.
- Nic - 04-28-2014 05:25 PM
hmm it might be too late but try to explain to her it was more so a slip of words then you actually meaning that. you just got caught up in how great things were because you really like her and enjoyed spending time together. explain you didn't mean to make her uncomfortable. thing is if you really want something with this girl the communication has to get better. Say what you mean and mean what you say and be open with her she needs to do the same instead of running from the problem.
- Anna Marie Wilson - 04-28-2014 05:32 PM
No. You didn't mess up. She just read too deep into what you said. Toi bad for her. I think it's wonderful that you believe in live at first sight. I know I do and it paid off for me. Niw I sm happily married ...it was love at first sight!!!