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Should I say it or will this scare him away? - Rosie - 04-28-2014 06:53 PM
SHY GUY ADVICE:
I like this guy, but he is incredibly shy. If he likes me even the slightest bit, he's amazing at hiding it.I always chat him on facebook, always playing damsel in distress. Last night at lax practiced, I pulled a muscle and asked him about it. It went from that to sports, and it ended with me insulting his age group, then apologizing and telling him I forget because he looks much older. He laughed.
WHAT I WANT TO SAY is that he looks older because I find him really cute. The thing is, he's super super shy and I don't know him well enough to call him a "good friend". My friend told me I should say he's cute, but I was afraid he would get scared off. I'm not scary though, I talk to lots of shy guys and (not to brag) they all fall for me instantly because I'm "unexpectedly friendly". BUT I DON'T WANT THEM, I WANT HIM. Lol. should I tell it to him, or wait?
- qosmio - 04-28-2014 07:00 PM
Say this to him in person and make sure you have a take it or leave it mentality , don't fret if he says no " Hey , (name), when are you free to get together for dinner or drinks? I think you're really awesome , but I can't be your friend because I'm really attracted to you and i'm interested in you romantically" or something of that sort. He will be surprised.
- J.P. - 04-28-2014 07:04 PM
Just say you have feelings for him. Tell him that he has nothing to be afraid of in you and you think hes really nice. make sure you dont do it near your friends or his friends because that will make him nervous. the worst feeling in the world is talking about relationship stuff when you surrounded by girls who you dont know.