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Am I suppose to delete all my ex's pictures? - petitecap205 - 04-28-2014 09:16 PM
Okay so, I broke up with my ex right, then I said lets still be friends maybe and he said no cause it would be weird. Like how immature. But whatever, then we kinda moved on over the friend thing we fought about stupid things ( even though we're not dating) then we made up, and now he's being really nice, ( before he was being a total jerk) but anyways, am I suppose to delete all my pictures of him and I on my phone? Or the ones of his family members and I. I don't know if he deleted his, he deleted them on his Instagram and Facebook and everything but on his camera roll? Should I delete them? Or what? I feel like I still have feelings for him but what after he said ide never date him again.
- Fiona - 04-28-2014 09:25 PM
You can keep pictures, but your heart will break every time you see them. I suggest... get rid of all but one.
- Anon1999 - 04-28-2014 09:32 PM
Keep the photos, and get some more.
Stalk him tonight outside his door.
Just dont let him know ur there.
Wearing nothing but underwear.
Post them on ur fb walls,
Especially the ones of his balls.
- MM - 04-28-2014 09:42 PM
Actually, needing some time to yourself to adjust to the end of a relationship is a perfectly mature approach. Otherwise, you wind up in the situation you're in now where you're not sure if you really can just be friends or not. And it's certainly more mature than thinking you need to delete all your photos just because the relationship is over. You might want to get rid of anything intimate, but just hanging out with family? Those things happened. Erasing the picture won't change that.
- Monica - 04-28-2014 09:44 PM
When your really over him youll delete the pictures. If yous start dating someone else I would get rid of them right away. Not being able to get rid of them shows your not over the relationship yet. Whenever your ready to get rid of them you will
- Dee - 04-28-2014 09:46 PM
I would take them down off any place everyone can easily see them. You can file them away until you're ready to rid them out of your life, but get them off your phone and anywhere visible. This shows him and anyone else who might be getting off on your break up that you've moved on. I remember I did that with my ex too, but I just deleted them, never saving even 1. He saw it and was almost insulted and took it hard, like I smashed him across the face. I was only too happy to deliver the agony to him because he deserved my indifference. But, you're ex seems friendlier to you than mine was and you seem to be a little confused, not really looking to delete your pics of you both. So, your best bet is to file them UNTIL you know you're done. Good luck
- edie - 04-28-2014 09:55 PM
I would say yes, because if you decide to date another guy and you still have those pictures he might get jealous and that might cause problems in your relationship. delete some and keep some.
- ~L£NA~ - 04-28-2014 09:56 PM
Sounds like he got rid of the ones that other women can see, it could keep him from getting a date if he has pictures of another female. If you are done with him, then be done. Just because you get rid of the pictures doesn't mean you are getting rid of the good memories. They are in your head. If you plan on moving on, holding on to the ex is only going to get it the way. Trust me, my husband just now got rid of his ex. It caused us marital problems for a while. Now that she is out of the PICTURE . We have a peaceful marriage!
- My - 04-28-2014 10:00 PM
yea
- Boudicca - 04-28-2014 10:01 PM
He was being sensible when he said being friends would be weird. he knows you still have feelings for him and were just trying to cling on to whatever you could ge tof him. Which is now starting to feel claustrophobic to him, a bit like being stalked. Which is why he wants the pictures deleted. They feel like an invasion of privacy and a way for you to hang onto the old relationship and make out you are more involved wiht him than you are, in your head. He knows this.