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What should I do if the guy I like does drugs? - VWVS - 10-15-2012 09:26 PM

This guy is a really great guy. We work together a lot with our local youth services and do community service. He's really funny and nice and I like being around him. I'm not completely sure if I want to persue a dating relationship with him, but I would like to get closer. Some people he is friends with I am also getting to know and I am almost positive that most ofthem do drugs/alcohol too. I know for a fact that he has based on his Facebook page, and honestly the majority of the kids in my town have at least tried them. Just recently though he scoffed at this place in the woods where kids come to chew tobbacco. I'm not sure what to do about this. I would never be pressured into doing drugs or alcohol, but if I want to become better friends with and possibly date him, and become closer with the others, and they all drink/ do drugs, I don't know how fun it would be to hang out because they might all be doing that stuff. Any advice?


- Jonathan - 10-15-2012 09:35 PM

That depends on whether his friends are totally okay with people who don't partake, and whether he's totally okay with people who don't partake. You don't know him well enough yet to know. Maybe you should work on that? Maybe the best questions to ask are: do they ever get together and not partake? does he mostly only partake socially with his friends? Then decide how you feel about him and them.


- Sean - 10-15-2012 09:35 PM

at the end of the day its upto u.


- Nice Person - 10-15-2012 09:35 PM

Grab his junk and go to town.