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How do I tell a girl I just wanted to have sex with her? - Mike - 05-06-2014 08:50 PM
I met this girl around three weeks ago at a party I kissed her that night and then i drove her home. A week later there was a bonfire party and she was there, we talked for a long time i drank a lot of beer, then we start kissing and went to my car and had sex. Now she's stalking me, she texts me several times per day, writes on my facebook profile and she wants to hang out again go to the movies, she invites me to her parties, things like that, but I'm not interested, I don't like her, but she's a nice girl and I don't wanna be cruel. What should I do?
I was interested in one night sex and nothing more. I don't know how to explain to her.
- matt may - 05-06-2014 09:02 PM
Tell her that you're not interested in a relationship.
- MARCY - 05-06-2014 09:18 PM
Be honest with her.
- angel - 05-06-2014 09:20 PM
Be up front and gentle with her about it. Just go right out and say it-- "hey, I'm not interested in a relationship. That thing we did was just a one-time thing for me, but I'm sorry if it hurt you."
Then drop contact since you're not interested. No use in wasting your time/causing her more pain.
- Shul - 05-06-2014 09:28 PM
Lol.
- Relient K fan - 05-06-2014 09:39 PM
Be polite about it and just tell her that you're not interested in a relationship right now. Be honest. It might hurt her now but it will be for the best and then everyone can move on.
- Karebear - 05-06-2014 09:49 PM
Tell her that night you were in a drunken stupor and that you wouldn't want to ruin the friendship. You might just have to friendzone her.
- Thumbalina - 05-06-2014 09:50 PM
Just tell her flat out. Do not beat around the bush. Seriously, I'm a girl and I would rather take a truth like that than not getting any answer and having a guy leaving me wondering what's wrong. Just tell her and apologize. She has to take responsibility and learn from jerks like you.