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Can he be my soul mate? - Tina - 05-09-2014 06:30 AM
I have a guyfriend we have been friends for 2 years and we are 22 years old. We live about 2 hours away. We talk on the phone, facebook and skype. I started medical school last year while he is starting this year. I ended up telling him that I liked him on the phone. He was little rude with me on that day and rejected me. Then we ended up saying sorry to each other. Back to friends couple months later.
But then I annoyed him by texting, He got mad. After 2 days I send him a text I am sorry. He replies its okay no sorry needed.
When he is annoyed of me he calls me a kid and I am weird and says that he don't talk with kids grow up then talk with me. Obvious I should say sorry but he says to me sorry is not needed.
I am in love with him that when I am talking with another guy I his face on top. I feel his presence in school and when I am doing presentation I think he's watching me to the presentation.
I don't know if he will ever change his mind. People change all the time. But I am not sure about guys.
1 thing I find awkward that we fight and then re council??
Also my mom does not like him because of his living standard. He keeps on saying to me that my mom does not like him?
- Josh - 05-09-2014 06:31 AM
I wouldn't call this "soul mate". It seems you have a crush on him. Nothing you can really do just talk to him about it. If he's not feeling the same then he's not worth it and don't feel too bad about it.
- Karen - 05-09-2014 06:45 AM
Ok this guy does not seem to treat you right at all. If you really do believe in a soul mate, or you at least want something more to happen you have to be on the same page. Why chase after this guy if he's not showing the same interest back. It could just be the idea of him that you love more or less, and even so, you should try to get out there and see what else life has to offer in the guy department.
- Ilas - 05-09-2014 06:57 AM
Never think of someone that doesn't have feelings for you as a soul mate, because you'll suffer. You can't force him to be with you, he might be a great guy and all but there are many other guys that will be as good for you. You are friends keep it that way, but if you couldn't get him out of your mind and he doesn't want to take your relationship to the next level then you need to distant yourself for your own sake.
- Kevvy Talks - 05-09-2014 07:10 AM
Someone who gets this antagonized by the smallest things you do can't possibly be your soul mate. Your feelings don't seem to be reciprocated, and your relationship is really on and off. Your guy friend just isn't suddenly going to develop feelings for you. If they aren't there, that won't change.
Not only did he reject you, he apologized but never broached the subject again with you. If he hasn't confronted you about it, and you simply went back to being friends, then there isn't a possibility of romance between the two of you.