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RIDICULOUSLY clingy boyfriend, help please? - Mama - 10-01-2012 04:29 AM
Ok so I'm going out with this guy for 2 months now and he has recently (last 3 weeks) gone crazy! He calls and texts me constantly, he writes on my facebook and twitter all these embarrassing cheesy messages for everyone to see, he tells me he loves me all day everyday, wont keep his hands to himself in public, calls me "his family", talks about babies, marriage, etc, spends all his time with me and not his friends, starts sulking when I want time on my own or with my friends...
I want to end it with him, but I honestly think if I did I would crush him and he would turn in to a murderous stalker and end my life, not even remotely exaggerated. I mean, I went out with my friends the other night without him, and of course I was sleeping/recovering the next day at my friends house, he sat outside my house for an hour waiting for me. As well as all this, his parents are really close friends with my parents, so a bad breakup would be really bad for their friendship (because he's a mummy's boy) and we'd also have to see eachother all the time at family bbq's etc.
PLEASE someone help me, this is getting out of hand! I don't care if I'm being totally spineless, someone make the crazy go away!
PS my friends suggest cheating on him so that he breaks up with me, but I will not do that do him, and it wouldnt work anyway he's just get clingier.
- Redmastif - 10-01-2012 04:37 AM
Explain what he's doing, tell him that if he doesn't calm down you will not talk to him for a week.
- Maximum539 - 10-01-2012 04:37 AM
You should talk to your parents about it. He shouldn't be all clingy like that, I mean I'm a guy, but girls need their space too. Maybe your parents can get in touch with his and help. It's worth a try. Good luck!
- Samantha - 10-01-2012 04:37 AM
tell him to shove off
- Simonsays - 10-01-2012 04:37 AM
Tell him he is smothering you! Tell him you need more space to be you. Start hanging out with your friends more. Then tell him, "although you are not dating anyone else, you can't date him anymore because of the clingy style."
- S.Ar - 10-01-2012 04:37 AM
He has issues...and i'm beign sincere, and i am so SORRY! :/ You need to end it... you're mind and heart are telling you something. You are worth something more than this, you need someone who will be on the right mindset as you sweets, you need to break it off... say this: "Hey, i'm just gonna come right out and say this. I'm breaking up with you, and i'm sorry. You are so caring and have a lot of love in you, but sadly you are moving too fast and it isn't that I don't like you, I don't like THAT and sadly it makes me disconnected. I'm sorry, but we are not going to make it, we are not on the same level:/ I wish you the best of luck in life
"If he gets upset or rude, say there is no reason to be rude, you are making a GOOD choice for you guys and you don't wanna negotiate because your heart is telling you this. If he keeps trying to talk to you and is rude, ignore or block him.
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