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So tempted to text my boyfriend? Help!? - 870 - 05-10-2014 11:02 PM
Please read!!
I spoke to my ex a couple of months back as a FRIEND (I know it was stupid) and my boyfriend found out and lost trust in me. Ever since, he brings up the past all the time, splits up with me and then gets back with me. He's convinced I'm lying all the time, and he says if I don't tell him the truth then we aren't getting back together.. But I have nothing to admit to?! He's so convinced I'm lying about stuff, when I'm not. Anyway, my boyfriend split up with me 2 days ago, I begged him and he told me to leave him alone and blocked me, then the next morning UNBLOCKED me. But he hasn't been in contact? Does he expect me to text him and beg for him back? I'm so tempted to text him but I always do the chasing!!!! Will he come running back?!
Also, I deleted facebook in our relationship so he could trust that I'm not speaking to any one else... Should I get it back? Do I add him? Do I text him or will he come running?!! HELP!!!!!!!!!
We have been together a year. I love him very much.
- Finwie - 05-10-2014 11:14 PM
He's manipulating you. If he lost trust in you just because you spoke to an ex then he has some serious trust issues, and it sounds like he's punishing you for nothing now. Breaking up and getting back together all the time is very unhealthy and you should stay away from him. I know you love him, but is it really worth all the pain he's causing you?
- avin - 05-10-2014 11:29 PM
If you really love him and you have no fault it is just his misunderstanding, then explain him everything talk to him and make a meeting tell him from begin to end that you are innocent. If he has no other affair and he is going away for just misunderstanding then he will surely come to you.
- white lilly - 05-10-2014 11:40 PM
You betrayed him by trying to be ''friends'' with you ex. How stupid.
Now you have to deal with the consequence. I would dump you too.
- OwlAlwaysLoveWine - 05-10-2014 11:53 PM
Being with someone who has trust issues is a very difficult thing.......this guy is playing games with you. You've done nothing wrong. Unless you were sexting your ex or something, texting him as a friend is not a crime. Honestly, in my opinion, you should never chase a guy. If your boyfriend wanted to be with you and have a healthy relationship with you, he would let go of the past and move on from it. He sounds like he has some stuff to work out for himself. Don't beg him. Have more respect for yourself than that. You deserve better than someone who doesn't believe anything you say. That's ridiculous. My advice, keep Facebook down and don't contact him. If he contacts you, see what he has to say, and go from there. However, in my humble opinion, I wouldn't even go back to him if he asked me to. People with trust issues will hardly ever change their behaviours. And it will always be difficult like this for you. See what happens, but yeah, I'd say don't contact him. Let him come to you. And if he doesn't, consider it his loss, and not yours. This is HIS issue, not yours. You haven't done anything wrong, so don't apologize for anything and don't let him manipulate you into thinking you're shady.
Hope this helps, good luck!
