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Should I add my crush on fb? - Mr. Hockey Guy - 05-14-2014 08:14 AM
He was in my bio class last semester but never had the opportunity to talk to him.
Every time I see him standing at his locker, he would look at me first, then look away then when I walk past by him, he would look at me again.
This happened more than once but I don't really know if he feels the same way I do for him (most certainly not but I'll never know if I don't make a move?)
I saw his account on fb but I am not sure if I should add him or wait for him to add me
would I look desperate if I add him?
He's a very sweet guy -- I can tell by the way he interacts with everyone around him and he's super sexy too..he plays football and hockey
and I love his smile the most xD
I didn't develop this feelings for him until maybe last month?
Have you ever been in the same or similar situation as I am and did the person end up liking you back? Please tell me your stories/life experiences.
And what if he does add me and he talks to me in school? I never talk him because I'm really shy..hehe my heart beats so fast when I'm near him with no one around. I'm 18 and he's 19.
- NHCC - 05-14-2014 08:28 AM
Yes you should... I did, best decision I have made with regards to him yet.
- Snappy - 05-14-2014 08:37 AM
Well... go ahead and add him!! I'm sure he doesn't know you like him dear. Try being friends with him.
- saydie - 05-14-2014 08:40 AM
matter of fact yes that sounds really similar to my story (:
i deffently think you should add him on fb, and it will not make you look desperate... it will show him that you are making an effort to become his friend (:
- D.K. - 05-14-2014 08:56 AM
I just added the guy I like from my school on facebook. I said hello first an smiled at him though so not to be weird.
- krisztian - 05-14-2014 09:10 AM
yes you should add him.. he dnt know that you like him so it wnt look desperate
- Mike A - 05-14-2014 09:17 AM
Well, the great thing about facebook is that you can often tell if someone is gay/bi or straight by their gender preference. Generally, when people list their gender of preference, they either do it honestly or not at all. I myself am bi but I just left that blank so it doesn't show up.
I don't see much wrong with sending him a request on Facebook. You could simply say something like "Hey, I know you! We have class together. hows it going?" then hit send. If he is actually up for connecting with people he just knows by association he will accept your friend request. Then you should feel him out from there.
See how he feels about homosexuals first. Mentioning a gay celebrity in conversation, and acting like you just heard they were gay might be a good way to test the waters. The latest celebrity to come out publicly is Ricky Martin, so mentioning "Oh my god, Ricky Martin is gay?" in a surprised manner will get some kind of reaction. If he seems to be okay with the idea of men being gay from that conversation, then maybe you should tell him that you are gay. You can do this all either online or in person.
So if he also responds positively or even apparently gets excited by the fact that you are gay, then its a strong hint that perhaps you should see where this goes. Do beware of trying to date someone who is bi-curious. In the end, it will be an experiment for them, and you might just have them break up with you one day with the explanation that they just aren't gay. And this could be after years of being together.
So as long as you know what your getting into, and how to approach this guy, things should go okay. You might just end up with a friend who is cool with you being gay but doesn't wanna go there with you, you might end up with a friend with benefits or you could end up dating.
Give what I said a shot. Good luck
And that's the best advice I can give
- Nate - 05-14-2014 09:33 AM
Ok...this is what you do.
First thing - You NEED to talk to him. Somehow. It could be a short comment on anything. If he's wearing a nice shirt, take advantage of that situation and make a passing comment about it. "Hey, nice shirt!" What you want to do is have a conversation before you friend him on Facebook...otherwise, you'll be that strange, shy guy in bio class friending without so much as saying "hello!"
Here's a few more conversation starters:
"You play hocky, right? My friend just recently told me he's gonna start playing...know good stores around town where he could buy some equipment?? This is not a sport I'm very familiar with."
(It's ok if this is a total lie...remember, you're using this as a conversation starter)
"You know what time it is?" (Always a classic)
All he needs to do is acknowledge you once...then you can friend him on FB.
Good luck!
- hyczf - 05-14-2014 09:41 AM
I think you should add him, if u like him, make the first move, doesnt hurt no 1.
Luckily my crush added me. He still dont know i like him hehehe