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Why are people so interested in talking behind my back? - Luck Of Fire - 05-14-2014 08:57 PM
Yesterday my friend told me that people are talking sh-t and really nasty things behind my back, mainly for my
1) Gummy smile [I smile a lot and is always "high"]
2) Being ugly
3) Being "noisy" in class. [I like to ask and answer teacher's questions]
4) Once I got misunderstood by the media and caused a controversy, and as a result some of the "school patriots" hate me.
5) My "personality" [Nobody gave me an explanation for that.]
She told that there are more sh-t and I am really famous in school and a lot ofed that I think my school is not good people hate me. I am not even a mean person who calls people ugly/fat/shitty and a majority people hate me for the above points?...
From then, I begin thinking about who is talking behind my back- teachers, relatives, members of social organisation I am part of....I am getting really paranoid about this. I don't expect everyone to like me but they shouldn't be so mean to me.
I don't think I have an attitude problem.
I am doing rather well socially. I have three close friends [two friends for more than 3 years, another one for more than 7 years]. Two boys have confessed to me [one like me for my straight hair and another I am not so sure, but I think he've dropped hints that he like my smile].
She tried to stand up for me when one the people I barely know approached me in the shopping mall and asked me why is my friend being "friends" with me. I am really starting to feel the hate.
- hry420 - 05-14-2014 09:12 PM
And whats this so called friend saying to all this?? Is she standing up for you and saying "Hey wait a minute this is my friend your talking about shes a good kid you have no right to be talking behind her back"? No shes not because she is your problem get rid of that so called friend! She's a gossip and your encouraging her by listening
Tell her you'r not interested and don't care what anyone thinks of you, You don't want to know DON'T listen to her... Love yourself for who you are you know you are a good person and that is all that matters and don't get involved in gossip.. dont gossip and dont listen x
- Tutti Frutti - 05-14-2014 09:28 PM
you are paranoid and obsessed... you have posted this 4 times.