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Can i ask her out on facebook although we never chatted before ? - 932 - 05-18-2014 10:09 AM
So some months ago I met by chance a girl which used to be in my class a few years ago. We had a little chit-chat and then when I got home I searched for her on facebook and added her to my friends.
Lately I've been thinking that it'd be nice if we hung out but the problem is that we're never online at the same time, so we never had any conversation via facebook. I don't want to wait for the moment when she and i will be online so we can chat a bit and then I propose to her to meet somewhere, it'd take too long. Take note that facebook is the only means of communication I have, I don't have her number or e-mail or anything else.
So I'm thinking of sending her a message where I basically say that I want to hang out with her, but I'm afraid it'll come across as too sudden and almost creepy which would turn her down.
What do you think ?
- 308 - 05-18-2014 10:23 AM
In my opinion... it's not unusual to make your request when she's offline at the time. Remember the Internet is just a faster version of communication than sending letters. While we've become more used to instantaneous communication with people far away, you can still only answer when you're available to at the time.
So go ahead and ask to get together and know each other better.
- Porcelain Chai - 05-18-2014 10:29 AM
It will come off as creepy and you only wanting to use her......unless she is loose and then in that case she'll hop right on board! Just send her some messages and waiy for her to reply and just reply next time you are on. After a while, get her # so you can talk at the same time and not have to wait. DO NOT just be like "yo, you ever had sex? Let's date". Hopefully no guy is THAT stupid.