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What would you think if you went to your husband or wife FB and they hide their relationship status? - A WOMAN INLOVE - 05-21-2014 05:31 AM
what would you think if one day you went to your husband or wife FB page and they removed their relationship status that was just there the other day and on top of that they removed your comment. Everything is fine no fights prior to it.
I was not snooping. no one has to snoop on a a profile t hat is public to every eye. I was sending my husband a message and I noticed it so that you very much. If you would now place a real comment I would appreciate it. Sometimes I see things because it is just there not because I was looking for it
- meganlouise - 05-21-2014 05:33 AM
This is why facebook is a bad idea for anyone out of college. Too much drama.
Why don't you ask your darling husband if it concerns you so much? It would irritate the hell out of me.
- Pogo - 05-21-2014 05:48 AM
i will feel he or she doesnot respect our relationship and would also miss the words commitment and faith.i will sit and like to talk to him or her.
- Ted - 05-21-2014 05:49 AM
I would think the worst then rebuke myself for thinking the worst, then rethink it and realise that I had grounds to assume the worst.
A husband/wife should be proud to be married to whoever and shouldn't be hiding it. Especially if they delete your comment, man that is a tell-tale sign. I would be confronting that person
- Ryde-0n - 05-21-2014 05:53 AM
I'd probably never know as I feel no need to snoop into her accounts .
- Lexington - 05-21-2014 05:56 AM
Well, you ARE husband and wife. that involves communication. why don't you post a cute note on his FB wall and say "since when aren't we in a relationship sweetie?
" OR just ask him in person. but don't be chastising! Be cute about it say something like "oh, i see how it is! Facebook isn't allowed to know our personal life? " make sure you make a laughing joke out of it so as not to corner him. If you're married and you haven't been fighting i'm sure that you are doing fine and it was just a misunderstanding. but some advice? STAY OFF THE COMPUTER. you are asking a yahoo answer site instead of talking to your husband... there's a problem. sit down with him and have an old-fashioned conversation 
it helps. a lot.
- Be Different! - 05-21-2014 05:59 AM
I would say ASK HIM/HER WHY they hid it. Are they 'embarrassed' to be seen as married? FB allows for (and even encourages) deceptive relationships. It is currently one of the FIVE sites that is worst for 'cyber-bullying' (see link below). However, FB is not the problem, it is a tool, nothing more.
It MAY be a great site for linking up with old friends, or with people of like interests, but it has been used to cause much harm internationally as well. This is true of almost anything, however. A knife, in the hands of a surgeon, can do amazing things, but in the hands of a serial killer.....?
- Daniel Harmon - 05-21-2014 06:01 AM
I think you should talk to him about it. From the phrasing of the question, it seems you already have your "most probably" conclusion; it will do nothing to give you an answer other than the one you have already arrived at. (since you did phrase the question that way) No one will know your relationship better than you two, and you should probably know right away when confronting him whether your suspicions are warranted. Some advice that I would give would be when confronting him, give him a clear sign of what you think (even exaggerate it a bit to get his quickest response).
Also, to keep any relationship between two people truly between those two people, concerns with that relationship should be only voiced between the partners. Just like every business is unique, every relationship is also unique. Asking advice from other business owners who deal only with their unique business gets advice that doesn't pertain to your specific situation. You don't even know if they have successful businesses.