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what would you think of this situation? offensive to me? - 650 - 05-23-2014 05:58 AM
my boyfriend recently got Instagram last August. Recently he started following a page called "All Country Girls". And of course it has girls in bikinis next to trucks, girls in camo, hot girls shooting guns, hot girls on their horses, hot girls in daisy dukes, etc.
That is his dream type. I am sorta like this but not to the extreme. i drive a truck, but i don't parade around in camo all day long claiming i'm a hot country girl.
i'm honestly jealous he started following this page. it makes me feel shtited on. like i'm chopped liver. am i not enough for him that he needs a page like that to get his sexy women from him?
i feel offended and hurt. i thought he wasn't like that.
and to top it all off he's looking at beautiful women, but he never tells me i'm beautiful.
hurts.. should i calmly talk to him about how i feel?
thank you. and btw i am not a controlling girlfriend. i just think i deserve more respect.
i am 23 so yes, the personal photos are definitely sent to my boyfriend. so he does get those special treats. i also tell him he's handsome all the time.
- Kelsi - 05-23-2014 06:00 AM
There are plenty of those kind of Instagram accounts and honestly most of them are random girls or pictures found on other websites and just posted on there. I honestly don't think he would be talking to them or ect.. He probably is just looking like every other male out there. I would tell him that it bothers you since communication is a major thing in a relationship and talk about it with him and maybe say that it hurts you that he doesn't tell you that you're beautiful. Because that is a hurtful thing. and go from there. It problem can't be fixed if you don't tell him what is bothering you!
- Allysia Paquette - 05-23-2014 06:02 AM
It would be better to just tell him how you feel. Honestly, it's just a page. Nothing more, nothing less. Maybe you should send him pictures in some shorts beside your truck? Nothing too promiscuous of course (I don't know how old you are). I get where you would be a little upset if he does not compliment you because he should. Every man should remind his girlfriend/wife how attractive they are to them, but unfortunately it sometimes wears off. I would just tell him that you feel a little intimidated that he is looking at beautiful women when he isn't in fact showing his attraction towards you, but on the same note you need to do your part too. (: Try to remember not to be too jealous, it's just pictures of girls he will never meet.
- . - 05-23-2014 06:18 AM
Just get a new boyfriend