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What is wrong with my sister ? !? - Daphne - 10-16-2012 06:21 AM
My sister wrote on her Facebook page that being a teenage mother is a great thing. I don't think it is. Just because she had a kid at 14 now that she's 18 having another one doesn't mean it's a nice thing. She even said women who have kids at 30 or 40 suck and are stupid. Her and my other sisters are young too and they're having kids and getting married. The youngest one just had twins and she's 16. And my sisters who are 21 and 22 are also having kids. I'm 19 my boyfriend is 23 and I'm not even ready for kids and she called me stupid. Me and my boyfriend are getting married soon but were not ready for kids. I'm not even in collage yet I don't even have a job. I think she's lost her mind and all my other sisters have too. My ex girlfriends cousin just had her baby and she's 17. Half the girls from my school have kids and are getting married and they're younger than me and even my favorite singers cousins are my age and they're married and have kids. I feel like everyone is having kids except me. I'm not jealous or anything I just feel alone. Why are so many teen girls having babies ? And what is wrong with my sister ? ! Should me and my boyfriend have a baby or wait a few years ?
- Alexis - 10-16-2012 06:29 AM
seems like youre the only one with common sense in your community.
- Tyler - 10-16-2012 06:29 AM
WAIT
- the party - 10-16-2012 06:29 AM
wait a few years to have a baby. think more in the future. think all around life, having a baby is a big deal and cost a lot of money. girls today just thinks it cool to have someone who will look at them like thier god and they don't think about the how. what i mean is how their going to get money, how their going to live, where their going to live, the unpredictable cost in the near future. ho their going to feed the baby, clothe it. theirs a lot to being an adult that young girls like your sister didn't she coming. parent hood has its ups and its downs but the best advice people can give is to really think and sit down and plan out what they want how their going to get it and when. we all have this covering over our eyes that prevents us from seeing the truth about the world, its a cruel and sometime heartless one. think about the possibly and try to prevent the bad ones. don't try to go with the crowd fight them every step of the way, don't just think about yourself but think about the baby. if they will grow up in a loving home, or a place where they can get the best opportunities you can give them in the long run.
- Amy - 10-16-2012 06:29 AM
You're the only one one in your family that has any sense. People are stupid these days. The world is going to hell. I'd wait to have kids because you don't want anyone to pressure you to have a child. Wait til you're ready.